Glad that's over.

20thirteen

BD just left. DD was overtired the whole time so she cried pretty much the whole time. And his gift did not contain clothes so I couldn't make fun of him. He was almost stunned that she is eating solids now, she wasn't last time he saw her, she's been eating solids since thanksgiving. Before he left he asked when the next time we were available. So... Fuck. I might have to have these awkward visits more often. He was here a total of *maybe* 30min. And it was so hard to have any kind of conversation. He mostly tried to joke with us but those jokes were just not landing. So... Ugh...

MinnesotaMomma91

Just remember this for next time.

MinnesotaMomma91

Also, what did he get her? Im in suspense i need to know.

jesuisfatiguee

Maybe next time he'll come at a good time, when she's rested and ready to play. We can hope, right?

Anyway, sorry it was awkward

Gamera3000

30 minutes every few months? That's about how much time you spend parenting, right?

MinnesotaMomma91

Must be nice to be a dead beat parent lmao.

20thirteen

Hahaha! I know right? Ugh, he tried to put her in her exer-saucer and she almost flopped out of his hands and onto the floor, when he "caught her" he nearly pulled her arm out of the socket! I was like "you know what, let me hold her..." He doesn't even know how to hold his own fucking child.

MinnesotaMomma91

Oh my lanta... i hope he knows what an ass he looked like

20thirteen

I'm sure he was proud that he didn't let her fall onto the hard tile and get her really hurt

Gamera3000

My ex has already looked into an infant helmet for Thor and has also ordered him a tactical diaper bag. It looks like something you'd take fishing.