September 2014 Moms

I'm out too...

Had my first ultrasound this morning. The baby was measuring right at 8 weeks but did not have a heartbeat. I'm heartbroken and I feel my body betrayed me a thousand times. I've been physically sick everyday since week 6. My bloodwork came back all normal levels. Now I have to make a decision on whether to miscarry naturally or schedule a d&c.
I really do wish a happy and healthy pregnancy for each one of you ladies. I hope for all of you to have a healthy and squishy baby to hold in September! Now I will go home and hold DS this much tighter tonight.
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  • I am so, so sorry. Sending you lots of hugs.
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  • I'm so very sorry! Thoughts, prayers and hugs for you!
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss

    Off BC, NTNP since June 2011

    Started acupuncture/herbs July 2012 

    First BFP 9-8-2012,EDD 5-15-2013, heartbeat of 175 at 8w2d, mmc discovered on 10-26-12 (11w6d) Cytotec on 10/26/12

    8/23/13 DX with non-IR PCOS

    Second BFP 9.12.13, EDD 5.29.14, heartbeat of 114 at 6w1d, mmc discovered on 10-18-13, D&C on 10/23/13 (baby girl/Trisomy 10) 

    Third BFP (surprise at Beta draw after d&c) on 1/10/14 (15dpo), EDD 9.20.14 Please be our RAINBOW!

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  • I am so sorry for your loss


                                                         
  • I'm so sorry to hear Starbear.  When you say bloodwork came back all normal levels do you mean with or without baby?  I am not a doctor and certainly not trying to give anyone false hope or make this experience hurt any worse for you, but if it were me with the baby measuring on track I think I'd make the decision to miscarry naturally. 

    Just remember that although you loved this baby so much and wanted to have it in your life, you miscarried because it wouldn't have been healthy or had a good quality of life.  But that baby loves you back and is grateful that you were able to let them go.

     

  • im so sorry for your loss. many hugs, thoughts and prayers to you
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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    BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014
    BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014
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  • I am so very sorry. 

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
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  • I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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  • ((hugs))

    The decision to wait or have a D&C is a hard one. Can't tell you what's the right one. One option puts all of this behind you faster, the other gives you more time to process. Either way - the pain of MC does get easier as time passes. 

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    PCOS , incompetent cervix, gestational diabetes, IVF graduate, with one ovary!
    1 angel baby due to a 20 week M/C thanks to IC
    1 ovary due to a benign tumor that crushed my ovary
    About 6 years of pointlessly POAS
    Proud mommy of a 2.5 year old  girl
    Currently pregnant with baby #2 surprise BFP -  Team Blue until proven otherwise


  • I'm so sorry for your loss....
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  • I'm so sorry.

    Oscar born October 2011

    Miscarriage at 8 weeks (August 2013)

    DD due September 1, 2014

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  • I'm so sorry. T&P.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.   Having been in your same position, I understand about feeling like your body has betrayed you.   I had a D&C the following day and it was a good choice for me.   I think it gave me closure and I was able to grieve from that point and put the pieces back together.  Time does soften the pain but you will always keep your angel baby in your heart.   Many hugs and T&P's to you during this difficult time.  

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    BFP #1 - DS 2007

    BFP #2 - 8/25/13 - mmc 10/10/13

    BFP #3 - 1/14/14 - EDD 9/30/14



  • So sorry for your loss!
  • I am so sorry :(
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  • So sorry you are going through this

    Me (28) DH (27)
    Married June 2012
    Started TTC July 2013
         BFP #1          August 2013          EDD 4/29/14            natural MC at 6-7 week
    BFP #2         January 2014         EDD 9/24/14            MC at 8 weeks, D&C
    BFP #3         March 2014            EDD 12/4/14            MC at 8 weeks, D&C
    BFP #4         August 2014            EDD 4/20/15        Hoping for our rainbow
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  • I am so sorry for your loss.

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    TTC Since September 2009

    1st   BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

    DX: Pericentric Inversion of Chromosome 8 & compound heterozygous for MTHFR mutations
    RX: Lovenox/Heparin & Folgard

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  • I'm so very sorry.  Lots of ((hugs))


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    BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

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  • I'm so sorry.
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  • I am very sorry for your loss.  You are in my thoughts and prayers.  
  • So sorry for your loss :(
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  • I'm very sorry for your loss.

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

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  • I am so sorry for your loss! Try to take care of yourself! *Hugs*
    Me: 30 Him: 33
    Married: August 2012
    BFP #1 9/2013 -- MC 10/2013
    DD: 9/22/2014
           
  • I'm am so sorry you are going through this. (((Hugs)))
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  • ((Hugs)) I am so sorry

    Married DH 3/14/09

    TTC Since Jan 2011
    Diagnosed with PCOS Jan 2013
    BFP#1 June 2013/ EDD 2/23/2013 Blighted Ovum confirmed July 18, 2013
    took Cytotec July 20, 2013

    BFP #2 12/28/2013 EDD 9/11/2014 Its A Girl!!! Rebecca Ann!

    Rebecca Ann born 8/31/2014 6lb 1oz 19 inches long 8:55am!!!!


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  • I am so sorry for your loss.  ((HUGS))  I was in a similar situation a few months ago, feeling like my body betrayed me, and I decided to schedule a d&c for the day after we found out the bad news.  For me, I needed it to happen quickly so that I could focus on healing physically and mentally.  Either way, it's a long road, and I'll be thinking of you.



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    DD1, born 4/10/11 at 32 weeks
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss

       
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  • So sorry for your loss :-(
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    BFP - 7/25/11 | EDD 4/3/12 | C-section 2/7/12 @ 32 weeks 
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. Please accept my Ts & Ps.

  • I am so so sorry that you're going through this loss. Good luck with your decision, I hope whichever you pick gives you peace and healing. Sending love.

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