This is a hard question to answer, I know. But since there are so many women on here from different backgrounds and with different beliefs, I think it is a great place to ask this question as I honestly have really been struggling (and so has my sister) with how to comfort my BIL after the sudden death of his father recently. He is an atheist through and through and believes that after you die, you are just gone. Gone vanished, poof. How in the heck do you offer comfort and reassuring thoughts?
I find myself wanting to tell him his father is watching over them or reunited with his mother now, but he doesn't believe that. I try to tell him Lila (their 2 week old) now has an amazing guardian angel, but he doesn't believe that either. What do I say? I am totally at a loss and I know my sister is too. She has voiced to me that the hardest part of all of this is that she has absolutely no idea what to say to her own husband to comfort him. Any ideas??
Re: How to comfort after the death of a loved one. (NBR)
Thank you. This is exactly the kind of advice I was looking for! I did not know his dad that well, but I will definitely relay the message to my sister. I think he would like sharing happy moments about him.