I'm working on sleep training now and hoping to cut out all feedings before 5. But she's been waking up as often as hourly and being inconsolable without nursing, so it'll be quite the challenge...
Married to my best friend 6/5/10
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
How am I not collapsing while waking up that often, or how am I sleep training? Haha. I'm using Ferber's method of CIO with graduated check-ins. Hoping for the best! DD #2 is still in a crib in our room, so it's making it a bit tough since she can see me if I stay in the room. Tonight I've been leaving until she falls asleep (like now).
Married to my best friend 6/5/10
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
LO would still like to eat every 2-4 hours but if he wakes up before 3am we console him without nursing. Anytime after 3 and he gets to eat. Minus the last couple days that he's been sick he was sleeping 7am to 4 or 5am and then eating
Have your tried to send in your SO/DH? The pedi told me to send in my DH because my DD knows I have milk. It took about 4 days of that. And now we are STTN. She does wake up but pits herself back to sleep.
DD usually wakes only once a night between 3:30-4. She chows down and goes back down pretty easily. I then usually have to wake her at 6:15 to eat again before we leave for daycare - she is always ready to eat again so it works for us.
Typically around 5 AM, then back to sleep for a couple of hours.
TTC since August 2011 (Me-29, DH-32). 4/28/2012 - SA: 5% motility. 5/21/2012 - SA: same results. Only shot is IVF (ICSI) 5/31/2012 - HSG: all clear 6/22/2012 - appt with RE, confirmed ICSI is necessary. 8/3/2012 - First IVF Monitoring Appointment 8/17/2012 - Egg Retrieval (retrieved 23 eggs, 3 made it to freezer) 8/18/2012 - OHSS - hospitalized, need to wait one cycle to transfer embryo(s) due to OHSS 8/29/2012 - begin meds for frozen cycle 10/12/2012 - FET one embryo 10/24/2012 - Beta #1: 442 10/26/2012 - Beta #2: 947 10/29/2012 - Beta #3: 2900! 11/15/2012 - first u/s: baby measuring perfect, heart rate is right on target 2/6/2013 - A/S looked perfect. Still team green by choice! 7/6/2013 - Baby girl born after 44 hours of un-medicated labor, 2 hours of pushing, and emergency c-section due to transverse head. DD was perfectly healthy at 6 pounds, 14 ounces. We are thrilled!!
For us it depends on the night. Sometimes its "early" such as 11-midnight and other times its 2-3am. I try to just rock him back to sleep if its the 2-3am one but sometimes he won't have it. I can usually tell by his daytime eating and consumption if he will wake up for a feeding. If he ate good throughout the day then I try the rocking thing, if he sucked at eating then I know he will eat at somepoint.
Have your tried to send in your SO/DH? The pedi told me to send in my DH because my DD knows I have milk. It took about 4 days of that. And now we are STTN. She does wake up but pits herself back to sleep.
Sigh. I wish I could do this. DH gets up for work at 4:45 every morning and works long hours. I'd feel pretty bad waking him up during the night since he doesn't get enough sleep as it is. Also, he's a REALLY heavy sleeper so I'd have to wake him up for every check-in. Haha.
Married to my best friend 6/5/10
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
C is down at 6pm for the night - if he has a wakeup it's between 9-10pm. Then sleeps through to 6:30 or 7am. It's strange he wakes so early, but I don't fight it since I'm still awake and it's a quick 5 min feed and back to sleep. He's been cutting it out on his own lately.
My guy wakes up around 3am to eat, then back to sleep until I wake him up at 6am (on work days) to feed him, then back to sleep. On weekends he'll sleep after the 3am feeding until about 7am.
Re: 1 motn feeding?
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.
TTC since August 2011 (Me-29, DH-32).
4/28/2012 - SA: 5% motility.
5/21/2012 - SA: same results.
Only shot is IVF (ICSI)
5/31/2012 - HSG: all clear
6/22/2012 - appt with RE, confirmed ICSI is necessary.
8/3/2012 - First IVF Monitoring Appointment
8/17/2012 - Egg Retrieval (retrieved 23 eggs, 3 made it to freezer)
8/18/2012 - OHSS - hospitalized, need to wait one cycle to transfer embryo(s) due to OHSS
8/29/2012 - begin meds for frozen cycle
10/12/2012 - FET one embryo
10/24/2012 - Beta #1: 442
10/26/2012 - Beta #2: 947
10/29/2012 - Beta #3: 2900!
11/15/2012 - first u/s: baby measuring perfect, heart rate is right on target
2/6/2013 - A/S looked perfect. Still team green by choice!
7/6/2013 - Baby girl born after 44 hours of un-medicated labor, 2 hours of pushing, and emergency c-section due to transverse head. DD was perfectly healthy at 6 pounds, 14 ounces. We are thrilled!!
BFP #1 9/7/10, EDD 5/14/11, Violet born 5/27/11.
BFP #2 4/9/12, EDD 12/16/12, M/C Rory 4/24/12.
BFP #3 10/6/12, EDD 6/16/12., Matilda born 6/17/13.