Further proof my ex walks around without a brain and makes me wonder if he can function...
I'm due anytime now, so he wants to be kept in the loop on progress so he can get here from out of state to see her after she is born. No probs. I'm all about it.
So he tells me today that he doesn't want to be around my parents (uhhh are you a boy or a man?) so he'll come up when they leave. Um hey dumbass...do you think they are going to just come up for a day or two and go? My mom will be here for two weeks and then my dad is coming up for the two weeks after to help me. If I have a csection or complications, my mom is taking FMLA to stay for a few months. I told him he is going to have to get over himself, man up, and think about his daughter and not worry about anything or anyone else. I think his family is nasty but do I honestly think I will never see them again for the rest of my life or can avoid them altogether? Absolutely not. This is how I know he's full of shit because he told me when he sent me the visitation proposal that my family would be able to see their granddaughter when he brought her to Florida. Yeah. Right. I mean, I knew that wasn't true but this tells me it totally wasn't.
It's completely maddening the child is about to have a child but can't just get over himself for one minute and not worry about my parents. I get that they hate him and would love to pin him against the wall and chop his nuts off and that must suck knowing that...but get over yourself and man up. Now he's saying he won't see her until they leave, so you know what...fine. Let's hope he doesn't. That way it will make him look like an assbag in court that I gave him all these chances and all this time to see her and he CHOSE not to. Not to mention I'm screen capping all these texts and saving them so he can't claim I was BS'ing in court.
PCOS // Loss 3/2010 // Single Mom // Natural Birth // DC Metro // Baby Girl Born 2/2/2014