DD has been friends with a girl she met at a gym class when they were 1 for about 3 years now. The mom and I are teachers so we spend alot of time in the summer together, and last year the girls did a dance class together. I hadn't spoken to the mom since the summer. We tried to make plans over a school break in November, but she said her and her kids were sick, so it didn't work out. DD has been asking about the girl. I felt sort of funny contacting the mom because I knew the girl had a birthday coming up and I didn't want her to invite us out of pity or feel like she was put on the spot. Well, I texted her anyway and right away she mentions the party. We got together and she told me she forgot the invite and asked me to text her my address, which I did. She talked about the party a bit and I made it sound like we we're going. It's been about 2 weeks, the party is Saturday and the invite never came. She's not the best planner or most organized, so it is possible she forgot. I don't know the time or their address, it's a house party so not like they need an exact head count, so I do need more info if we're going.
WWYD? I don't mind not going and letting it go, but I also basically said we're going, so I'd hate for her to think we're going and we not show up. I enjoy getting together with them so I'd like to keep the friendship going.