Ok, so at our A/S the tech told us about this weird thing that is going on with the way the umbilical cord is attached to the placenta. It's called velamentous insertion. This is what they are attributing my bleeding in 1st tri to. Image for illustration purposes:

Everything else in the scan was super-dee-duper and our baby boy looks great! I guess it's taken some time for that information to penetrate my brain and I've had a chance now to digest the meaning. I guess what it means is that the baby could eventually not get the proper nutrients and lead to low birth weight and things like that. I'm not really worried about that right now because he was measuring right on schedule and perfectly active. They will re-scan in about a month or so. What they are concerned about would be if the vessels that attach cord to the placenta are located too closely to the cervix. More pictures:

I guess if it's too close the baby will not be able to withstand vaginal labor and will have to be a C/S. I know it is like NBD to have a C/S and I certainly don't think I will be less of a mom because of it. But I gotta admit I'm completely scared shitless. My doctor is also going to start me on blood pressure meds because it's borderline high. I'm just feeling kinda down about having a few medical issues to be concerned about. It makes me feel like I have to be extra careful about everything and I've been trying to behave completely normally unless something is physically uncomfortable.
On the bright side, the doctor hasn't said that I WILL have a C/S, I'm just suspecting that because they have basically told me it's very likely and they just need to confirm it when I'm further along. I'm grateful for everything else looking good. Anyone else ever had this cord issue? Can anyone tell me to just stop freaking out about the possibility of C/S? Sorry this was so long.
ETA: pics not working.
Re: Velamentous cord insertion and possible C-Section
Keep a good attitude about it and remember that having a CS doesn't make you any less of a woman or a mother, and you'll do great no matter what.
DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in
but forreals, thanks. the first part of what you said is what I need to hear. I think the idea of having a surgical procedure scares me. DH better be real nice to me.
But you're right...surgery is scary. No way around that. It's also kinda cool, though. The whole process was really pretty fascinating to me.
DS: 11/8/11 | 9 lb 7 oz, 22 in
DD: 5/22/14 | 9 lb 9 oz, 21.5 in
I hope that everything clears up for you and your baby boy so that you can have a vaginal birth, but if it doesn't work out that way, the csection isn't so bad. Yes, scary surgical procedure, but the outcome is the same.
DS#1 - Apr 22, 2010
DS#2 - Oct 26, 2012
DS#3 - May 28, 2014
and @shell+bell, I know you're not BSC! On some level that's why this is hard, I just assumed I would be able to have the vag birth experience and everything that goes with that. But if not, so be it.
I hope you get the best birth possible with a healthy baby!
More about it later. Pretty much my friend said that we get more ultrasounds to make sure baby is growing... If not they induce at that point. Possibly a c section. I wouldn't worry about the c section.
BFP#3 9-4-13 Benjamin Lee born 4-28-14
BFP #1 - 3/23/13 // EDD - 11/27/13 // M/MC - 5/3/13 // D&C - 5/4/13
BFP #2 - 8/26/13 // EDD - 5/10/14 // Born 5/18/14
I will have another scan on Feb 27 to see how baby is growing or if the vessels are too close to the cervix. I think at that point if I need to, they will schedule a CS. I'm just hoping for the best at this point! Thanks for letting me have my freak out! I needed to get that off my chest, it was starting to really bring me down. I feel way better about it all now.
I definitely freaked out. And I think I have had some grief and grieving going on the last few weeks. I want you to know that being upset about this sort of news is totally normal. Isn't it nice to have some pregnant chicks to listen to our problems?
Just had to add in here, I had my wisdom teeth and 2 other teeth pulled, and that was WAY WORSE then my Csection experience. Sounds odd, but I woke up when they were extracting the last 2 teeth, and I just started screaming, and I felt the pain immediately, it was awful. I mean, recovery time was no where similar, that scared the crap out of me, and would be more scared of another big dental procedure over another Csection. My second section wasn't great, but still way better then pulling teeth
DS#1 - Apr 22, 2010
DS#2 - Oct 26, 2012
DS#3 - May 28, 2014
Just had to add in here, I had my wisdom teeth and 2 other teeth pulled, and that was WAY WORSE then my Csection experience. Sounds odd, but I woke up when they were extracting the last 2 teeth, and I just started screaming, and I felt the pain immediately, it was awful. I mean, recovery time was no where similar, that scared the crap out of me, and would be more scared of another big dental procedure over another Csection. My second section wasn't great, but still way better then pulling teeth
Ok good because I was miserable after that. After the anesthesia wore off and kinda came to in my moms car I was just sobbing and shaking uncontrollably. All the pain and throbbing hit me. It was weird. It was awful. I'm still not expecting to like it but I'm hoping it's better than that.
Started TTC 05.08
Me: Stage II endo, borderline high FSH
DH: perfect
1 lap, 5 IUIs = 4 BFNs and 1 c/p
2 IVFs, 2 FETs = 1 BFN, 1 c/p, 1 ectopic and finally a sticky BFP in May 2011!
1 FET in Aug 2013 = BFP!