UO

1and1is3

I can't believe this hasn't been posted yet! Let's hear 'em, ladies

1and1is3

My favorite turn on style on a guy is low rise jeans and shirtless Yummy!
Edit: Took out some words cuz the image could gross some people out.

LaxMOM44

That's not unpopular

pnutg

I would have loved to be one of those symptomless pregnant people...

SaguaroBlossmom

@annarussell05
I think it depends , I would be worried sick if I did not have any symptoms or MS should I get pregnant again. I was sick with both my DDs but then there was my ectopic. Positive pregnancy tests and no symptoms... So I would definitely be one of those people posting about no symptoms.

c-elizabethf

Maybe this is unpopular but I love Disney stuff, granted I don't want to be a princess but I still love Disney.

SaguaroBlossmom

@1and1is3
For youuu

snowgirl427

@beaubecca - i was dressed as Cinderella today... Must go change. I'm not a bond fan at all.

My UO - I hate cats

c-elizabethf

SaguaroBlossmom said:

@annarussell05
I think it depends , I would be worried sick if I did not have any symptoms or MS should I get pregnant again. I was sick with both my DDs but then there was my ectopic. Positive pregnancy tests and no symptoms... So I would definitely be one of those people posting about no symptoms.

This. But with my miscarriage I had symptoms and with Madison I didn't have really any in the beginning but it still worried me.

Lolalipsy

A few people have been horrified that I'm buying anatomically correct dolls (boy and girl) for DD.

Frankly I'm more irked by Barbie. Of course I will succumb to DD if she asks for one.

1and1is3

SaguaroBlossmom said:

@1and1is3
For youuu

Must remember not to take a drink of water while reading UOs... I literally spewed water everywhere! Not what I had in mind with my UO...

c-elizabethf

Lolalipsy said:

A few people have been horrified that I'm buying anatomically correct dolls (boy and girl) for DD.

Frankly I'm more irked by Barbie. Of course I will succumb to DD if she asks for one.

I don't really care for Barbie either. And these weird dolls I see now days...lol

1and1is3

LaxMOM44 said:

That's not unpopular

I don't think it was either until a few friends told me they love their husband as close to naked as possible... Hey am I the normal one and they have the UO?!

Lolalipsy

cgiles120812 said:

Lolalipsy said:

A few people have been horrified that I'm buying anatomically correct dolls (boy and girl) for DD.

Frankly I'm more irked by Barbie. Of course I will succumb to DD if she asks for one.

I don't really care for Barbie either. And these weird dolls I see now days...lol

They're horrific. Have you seen how skinny they are as well.

emmy236

I hate 90% of people at Starbucks. I only go into the office about once a week and it's the only time I treat myself to Starbucks. Without fail there are like 10 people who have brought their entire desk there to work and take up way too much seating. Also, people suddenly forget how act while waiting in line, 3 out of 4 people order obnoxiously (I want my half caff to more of a 3/4y and is it possible to have a mixture of skim and whole milk with a sprinkle of nutmeg, not cinnamon even though I'm ordering a dulce cinnamon latte....etc) then after that ordeal they still grab my skinny vanilla latte. Seriously... I'm talking to you man with the Cam from modern family's ridiculous shirt. How do you mistake "Emily" for that wanna be hipster NN you gave yourself. This is why you're not getting any replies on match.com.

watuzzigal

@lolalipsy

kmcd23

I get annoyed when people assume they are getting dirty looks for whatever alternative parenting choice they are doing, like babywearing, cloth diapering, bf'ing in public, etc. 

9 times out of 10, I'm pretty sure it's either, 1. Not a dirty look and they are just paranoid/self absorbed. Or 2. The dirty look is real, but it's for a totally different reason, like your kid still has oatmeal all over his face from 2 hours ago, or you're talking to the 3 year old you're wearing like he's still six months old and you're being super loud about it, or some other more obvious reason.

It's amazing how many dirty looks real life AW's get. 

(This isn't about anyone here. It's about people in fb groups.)

Lolalipsy

@watuzzigal  Love you back!

drhibbard

kmcd23 said:

I get annoyed when people assume they are getting dirty looks for whatever alternative parenting choice they are doing, like babywearing, cloth diapering, bf'ing in public, etc. 

9 times out of 10, I'm pretty sure it's either, 1. Not a dirty look and they are just paranoid/self absorbed. Or 2. The dirty look is real, but it's for a totally different reason, like your kid still has oatmeal all over his face from 2 hours ago, or you're talking to the 3 year old you're wearing like he's still six months old and you're being super loud about it, or some other more obvious reason.

It's amazing how many dirty looks real life AW's get. 

(This isn't about anyone here. It's about people in fb groups.)

LOL @kmcd23 H thinks people are judging him all the time.  I tell him that everyone he thinks is thinking about him is as self absorbed as he is.

I want to hate Barbie, but I can't.  I looooooooooved playing with her when I was younger.  Like too long.  My sister was four years younger than me so I was playing with her (to justify playing with dolls too long)!

I think the "barbie is going to give girls a negative body image" thing is overblown.  It's a toy.  Some toys should definitely have an element of fantasy to them.  I do think having some correct dolls is also a good thing for learning though!

kmcd23

NailQueen said:

2010Bride2be said:

My UO is that I am totally buying one of these for DS for when we take trips to large places with a lot of people. Some people hate them or think that it's cruel...I just want my kid to be safe.

Note...I used to be one of those people that thought these were cruel. DS= changed mind.

Note: this is not pointed directly to you -its a general "you"
Leashes belong on dogs. You want to put one on your cat, ferret, hamster etc Id probably side eye you. You want to put it on your child?? Putting a leash on your child shows others that you cant control your child outside of your home. I think if you cant control your children, you shouldnt have any and  definitely not bring them out in public areas where you would need one.  Putting a leash on a child is just wrong.


Whoah. That's a pretty tall soapbox.

watuzzigal

I can't wait til I grow up and everyone judges me on whether I can control my kid or not.

ETA: oh wait. That already started.

coffeeandbooks

My UO is that I don't care about bad grammar.   I think good grammar is a result of a good education and a good education is a privilege that many people just don't have.  If my grammar is any better than the next person it is for the grace of God that I had the opportunity to learn something that someone else did not.
I know lots of smart wonderful people who don't know the difference between your and you're and I won't ever feel superior to them because of it.

watuzzigal

mslaurats said:

My UO is that I don't care about bad grammar.   I think good grammar is a result of a good education and a good education is a privledge that many people just don't have.  If my grammar is any better than the next person it is for the grace of God.
I know lots of smart wonderful people who don't know the difference between your and you're and I won't ever feel superior to them because of it.

Ohmygosh I'm bumpie polyamorous in the same thread!

This is my field of study (language/rhetoric/writing, not polygamy), and I STILL think this.



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smg2302

How is a leash any different that holding your child's hand or arm to stay with you?  At least the leash gives them a little sense of independence. 

I like to think of the leash like babywearing.  Except you're not wearing them.  And they're walking.

c-elizabethf

That's a little harsh to say someone shouldn't have kids. Kids are sneaky and some accidents do happen.

c-elizabethf

That's a little harsh to say someone shouldn't have kids. Kids are sneaky and some accidents do happen.

Boo0512

I will definitely leash my kid in a busy place like a mall if I feel it's necessary. I'd rather people give me side-eye than let my child be abducted. Kids let go of hands and run. They get lost in crowds. *shrugs* to each their own.

My UO is I don't think giving a baby Tylenol is a big deal. I hear a lot of parents say things like, "ugh I finally broke down and gave my baby Tylenol." What's the big deal? As long as you are giving the correct dose and don't give it to them all the time I don't see what the big issue is.

I'm not afraid to admit that there have been numerous times I gave dd Tylenol because I thought she was about to cut a tooth. Here we are at 7.5 months and no teeth. Whoops.

Should you give it to them on a regular basis? No. But if you think your kid might be in pain it's probably ok to just give it to them.

It's acetaminophen, not heroin.

coffeeandbooks

on the leash thing...I went to Disney with my three little cousins a few years ago. The place was a mob scene.   There were three adult women supervising the three kids, and we lost two of them on two separate occasions.  (we got them back    But, I cannot tell you how easily it can happen in a crowd and how terrifying it was.   We could handle the kids but we couldn't handle the environment.  LO won't be on a leash all the time...but there will be certain places that I will consider using one.

kyliensc

I lost DD at a forth of July parade. She was in the bounce house and snuck out and ran away. I didnt notice until she was gone. I am so thankful for the lady who saw her and brought her to the announcing stand. Probably the scariest 20 min of my life. Its hard to keep track of a toddler with a big crowd and i started using the backpack leash after that. It wasnt bc i couldnt control her, shes just sneaky and fast and was dressed in red, white and blue like every other kid there.

Shoegal36

2010Bride2be said:

My UO is that I am totally buying one of these for DS for when we take trips to large places with a lot of people. Some people hate them or think that it's cruel...I just want my kid to be safe.

Note...I used to be one of those people that thought these were cruel. DS= changed mind.

Well, pretty much everything I wanted to say has been said but I just really don't get why people have such a problem with these. How can someone be so against something that is meant to keep a child safe? If I go to the bathroom and stick my kid in a playpen, is that like putting a dog in a crate? And why isn't strapping a kid that can walk into a stroller, cruel?

While I don't think they're necessary all the time, I think they're great for crowded places. Children can go missing in the blink of an eye. No one is perfect. Accidents happen. 

I wouldn't hesitate to use one. The safety of my child is way, way more important to me than some ignorant person's opinion. They can side-eye all they want. 

And the comment about 'not having children if you can't control them' is just wrong on so many levels and to be quite honest, made my blood boil. Yeah, it's annoying when people don't discipline and let their kids run wild...but sometimes parents do their best and shit happens. It will probably happen to all of us at some point or another. Like I said, no one is perfect and even the best behaved children have their moments...because they're kids. Also, sometimes kids have ADHD. Sometimes they have Autism. We don't always know the whole story and to make a statement like that is pretty shitty.

DiFazette

F yeah I'll use a backpack with a leash on Owen. I give zero shits what anyone has to say about it. I've 'lost' my niece who's 3 for like 30 seconds before. Worst 30 seconds of my life. And if my kid is anything like me, he'll be curious as hell and wander off without it.

SaguaroBlossmom

The "leash" debate is so subject-able .. Some kids need them, some don't. It all depends on your childs personality. My DD1 is very timid when it comes to being apart from anyone. She freaks out if she can't see me when we are out and about. She has a healthy fear of many things (as did I) I guess you could say. So I do not feel the need to keep her on something like that. But I have many friends with little ones who are fearless and I would never judge them for wanting to keep their child safe. Being a good parent almost never has anything I do with it. Maybe in some circumstances the parents are a little too lax , but then again that's their choice.. Whatever works right ?

Boo0512

missk0411 said:

NailQueen said:

2010Bride2be said:

My UO is that I am totally buying one of these for DS for when we take trips to large places with a lot of people. Some people hate them or think that it's cruel...I just want my kid to be safe.

Note...I used to be one of those people that thought these were cruel. DS= changed mind.

Note: this is not pointed directly to you -its a general "you"
Leashes belong on dogs. You want to put one on your cat, ferret, hamster etc Id probably side eye you. You want to put it on your child?? Putting a leash on your child shows others that you cant control your child outside of your home. I think if you cant control your children, you shouldnt have any and  definitely not bring them out in public areas where you would need one.  Putting a leash on a child is just wrong.

I think I'll reserve judgement until I've walked a mile in the shoes of a parent whose kid just won't listen. Maybe they can't control their kid. Maybe the kid has a developmental issue that makes impulse control really really hard. If a leash keeps the kid from running in front of a bus, bless that leash.

Join me in a round of kumbaya!

Yeah I've got to agree 100% especially regarding your last statement. My H's sister was hit and killed by a car when she was 6 years old. Damn right he'll want our kid leashed.

Every time I take my niece anywhere my greatest fear is her getting away from me in a parking lot. Things can happen so fast and you don't get a second chance.

kmcd23

How is that nobody has pointed out the obvious...

Leashes are for husbands. Duh.


(Kidding.)

TradeMama

I'm about to have 2u1 and I will not hesitate to leash them if it keeps them safe... Not because I'm lazy, but because I only have two hands.

Boo0512

beaubecca said:

Boo0512 said:

missk0411 said:

NailQueen said:

2010Bride2be said:

My UO is that I am totally buying one of these for DS for when we take trips to large places with a lot of people. Some people hate them or think that it's cruel...I just want my kid to be safe.

Note...I used to be one of those people that thought these were cruel. DS= changed mind.

Note: this is not pointed directly to you -its a general "you"
Leashes belong on dogs. You want to put one on your cat, ferret, hamster etc Id probably side eye you. You want to put it on your child?? Putting a leash on your child shows others that you cant control your child outside of your home. I think if you cant control your children, you shouldnt have any and  definitely not bring them out in public areas where you would need one.  Putting a leash on a child is just wrong.

I think I'll reserve judgement until I've walked a mile in the shoes of a parent whose kid just won't listen. Maybe they can't control their kid. Maybe the kid has a developmental issue that makes impulse control really really hard. If a leash keeps the kid from running in front of a bus, bless that leash.

Join me in a round of kumbaya!

Yeah I've got to agree 100% especially regarding your last statement. My H's sister was hit and killed by a car when she was 6 years old. Damn right he'll want our kid leashed.

Every time I take my niece anywhere my greatest fear is her getting away from me in a parking lot. Things can happen so fast and you don't get a second chance.

Boo I'm really sorry, that is so sad about your H's sister. And scary! I always worry about stores and public events, parks, parties, etc. but I never thought about parking lots. Ahhhhh so much to worry about!! Can I just strap my kid to me until he's 16??


Thanks, I feel so terrible for my H. He still has a really hard time with it. Being a parent is so hard and it'll only get harder. All we can do is try to keep them safe.

Shoegal36

Boo0512 said:

I will definitely leash my kid in a busy place like a mall if I feel it's necessary. I'd rather people give me side-eye than let my child be abducted. Kids let go of hands and run. They get lost in crowds. *shrugs* to each their own. My UO is I don't think giving a baby Tylenol is a big deal. I hear a lot of parents say things like, "ugh I finally broke down and gave my baby Tylenol." What's the big deal? As long as you are giving the correct dose and don't give it to them all the time I don't see what the big issue is. I'm not afraid to admit that there have been numerous times I gave dd Tylenol because I thought she was about to cut a tooth. Here we are at 7.5 months and no teeth. Whoops. Should you give it to them on a regular basis? No. But if you think your kid might be in pain it's probably ok to just give it to them. It's acetaminophen, not heroin.

I totally agree. My mom and I were just having this conversation last night. My SIL is one of those people that are totally against it and I just don't get it. 

I definitely think there are people who overuse it, but if I think there's a possibility my child is in pain I would rather just give it to them to be on the safe side. 

After her 4 month needles LO had a bit of a temperature, but not a full blown fever. Just borderline. I called the pharmacist and she basically said it was my call, but that it wouldn't hurt. It was just before bedtime so I decided to give it and my SIL was mind blown. She couldn't believe the pharmacist would tell me it was ok to give Tylenol when it was only borderline. 

Boo0512

beaubecca said:

Boo0512 said:

missk0411 said:

NailQueen said:

2010Bride2be said:

My UO is that I am totally buying one of these for DS for when we take trips to large places with a lot of people. Some people hate them or think that it's cruel...I just want my kid to be safe.

Note...I used to be one of those people that thought these were cruel. DS= changed mind.

Note: this is not pointed directly to you -its a general "you"
Leashes belong on dogs. You want to put one on your cat, ferret, hamster etc Id probably side eye you. You want to put it on your child?? Putting a leash on your child shows others that you cant control your child outside of your home. I think if you cant control your children, you shouldnt have any and  definitely not bring them out in public areas where you would need one.  Putting a leash on a child is just wrong.

I think I'll reserve judgement until I've walked a mile in the shoes of a parent whose kid just won't listen. Maybe they can't control their kid. Maybe the kid has a developmental issue that makes impulse control really really hard. If a leash keeps the kid from running in front of a bus, bless that leash.

Join me in a round of kumbaya!

Yeah I've got to agree 100% especially regarding your last statement. My H's sister was hit and killed by a car when she was 6 years old. Damn right he'll want our kid leashed.

Every time I take my niece anywhere my greatest fear is her getting away from me in a parking lot. Things can happen so fast and you don't get a second chance.

Boo I'm really sorry, that is so sad about your H's sister. And scary! I always worry about stores and public events, parks, parties, etc. but I never thought about parking lots. Ahhhhh so much to worry about!! Can I just strap my kid to me until he's 16??


Thanks, I feel so terrible for my H. He still has a really hard time with it. Being a parent is so hard and it'll only get harder. All we can do is try to keep them safe.
ETA: not sure why this posted twice...

drhibbard

NailQueen said:

2010Bride2be said:

My UO is that I am totally buying one of these for DS for when we take trips to large places with a lot of people. Some people hate them or think that it's cruel...I just want my kid to be safe.

Note...I used to be one of those people that thought these were cruel. DS= changed mind.

Note: this is not pointed directly to you -its a general "you"
Leashes belong on dogs. You want to put one on your cat, ferret, hamster etc Id probably side eye you. You want to put it on your child?? Putting a leash on your child shows others that you cant control your child outside of your home. I think if you cant control your children, you shouldnt have any and  definitely not bring them out in public areas where you would need one.  Putting a leash on a child is just wrong.

Eh.  I give her mum mums to entertain her so I can eat a hot meal, like a dog owner would give a dog a bone.  Guess I might as well leash her too.

Some day your kid is going to have a meltdown, try to run away or cause a huge scene.  When that happens, please eat these words:  I think if you cant control your children, you shouldnt have any and  definitely not bring them out in public areas where you would need one.

mammie

2010Bride2be said:

My UO is that I am totally buying one of these for DS for when we take trips to large places with a lot of people. Some people hate them or think that it's cruel...I just want my kid to be safe.

Note...I used to be one of those people that thought these were cruel. DS= changed mind.

I also thought these were ridiculous until I had DS. My SDD was fantastic when out and  about she would listen very well and stop if she got more then 10 feet from us. DS on the other had was a runner and had no fear. He was super fast. I can't tell you how many times I chased that child. We taught the older ones exactly the same way but DS just didn't care LOL. I used one with him for busy areas that if he managed to get away from me he wasn't hurt, and we practiced without it in areas that were safer.

JoJo716

Late to the party but I was just telling a friend I will be getting a leash for ds. If his walking energy is anything compared to his crawling energy, I am screwed. Is it really bad that I almost borrowed my parents gated corral they used for their puppy? It looked just like a play yard. Too far?