Need to vent about sticky situation

lep2789

Hello ladies I need to vent! I have yet to meet my brothers baby who was born in June because his wife is a huge bitch. First of all no one likes her not even her own brother or sister in law (not me different person). She was in the hospital for a while before she was due with complications and I was unable to visit her because I myself was pregnant and working while suffering from terrible morning sickness. Although I couldn't be at her bedside I texted and called frequently as well as facebooked to see how she was doing. Instead of letting me know she was upset she cut me out by defriending me on Facebook. 10 months have gone by and I thought I would try to make peace and tried re friending her again on Facebook. Denied. So I messaged my brother ( keep in mind we aren't that close) on Facebook as to what her problem was with me. Instead of him responding she responds and gets completely dramatic and bitchy with me. She is a terrible match for my brother they had a shot gun wedding because she was pregnant and I don't think he realized what he was getting himself into. They has absolutely no money and she refuses to work because she's afraid to leave her baby. Her mom even offered to watch the baby so she wouldn't sent her to daycare. I think this is just her excuse for trying to be a princess bitch that she is. She puts all this pressure on him to work work work so they can get a fabulous house and so that she can get a car and etc but she won't work and said she won't work until her child goes to school. She has a college degree and he doesn't . I feel so awful for him but she controls every aspect of his life and I see divorce written all over their future. I seriously want to punch her in the face. She is rude, bossy, and she even yells at my sisters 2 year old in public.

atremag

I know how you feel.  I really do, but I encourage you to not let them get to you.  You don't need to let their life stress you out so much.  If she doesn't want to talk to you, whatever.  You obviously don't like her anyway.  Just be civil in person and let the rest of it roll off your back.  It is hard to do.  Believe me, I know.  But I guarantee you it will bring you more peace.   Best of luck!

lep2789

I just feel so bad for my brother but I guess he's the one dumb enough to marry this broad. And you are correct I shouldn't let it get to me I just really want to see my niece!