Who's with me?

singingirl96

tptbabe

I have no idea what this is? Can you explain?

Twinkie0612

I am guessing this is from the FFFC from August 2014. 

 There was a poster that said she couldn't get excited about her SIL's pregnancy because she got pregnant by IVF.  She went on to say that her baby was more of a miracle because it was made by love and not science.  It was a shitstorm of a thread.

tptbabe

Twinkie0612 said:

I am guessing this is from the FFFC from August 2014. 

 There was a poster that said she couldn't get excited about her SIL's pregnancy because she got pregnant by IVF.  She went on to say that her baby was more of a miracle because it was made by love and not science.  It was a shitstorm of a thread.

I see.

So, am I supposed to get riled up by this FFFC thread and what transpired between some stranger and her SIL, or that somebody brought that over to our board to try and stir up drama? What was the point of this?

Or maybe I'm just having a crappy day/week/month/year and projecting my anger onto somebody else. I don't lurk on BMBs either. Am I the only one?

Twinkie0612

IFinTN said:

@tptbabe I agree, poor form to cross boards like this. No one here has time for that drama:) it is one of the reasons I stay off other boards...

Eh. It's normal on most of the other bump boards to XP.  Infertility just happens to be a low drama board. 

Margritli

Twinkie0612 said:

IFinTN said:

@tptbabe I agree, poor form to cross boards like this. No one here has time for that drama:) it is one of the reasons I stay off other boards...

Eh. It's normal on most of the other bump boards to XP.  Infertility just happens to be a low drama board. 

Man, I am just plain too tired for drama. I avoid it at all costs since we started our IF journey, even though this pretty much makes me a social hermit. 

tptbabe

Twinkie0612 said:

IFinTN said:

@tptbabe I agree, poor form to cross boards like this. No one here has time for that drama:) it is one of the reasons I stay off other boards...

Eh. It's normal on most of the other bump boards to XP.  Infertility just happens to be a low drama board. 

I've seen people XP before, I just hadn't seen any mention of it on this board before, so I had no idea what the OP was talking about!

Normally drama doesn't bug me too much. (Heck, I lurk on TTGP sometimes for the amusement factor!) but I'm just having one of those weeks I think.

singingirl96

Sorry ladies... Since the FFFC thread spread on all the boards I am on, I figured most of you would know what I was posting about... Since the comment is mostly directed towards us.

I would delete it, but there is no way to delete a post.   So, since there is no link to the original post, or any mention of what the original comment was, just ignore it and move on.

Have a nice day.

Twinkie0612

tptbabe said:

Twinkie0612 said:

IFinTN said:

@tptbabe I agree, poor form to cross boards like this. No one here has time for that drama:) it is one of the reasons I stay off other boards...

Eh. It's normal on most of the other bump boards to XP.  Infertility just happens to be a low drama board. 

I've seen people XP before, I just hadn't seen any mention of it on this board before, so I had no idea what the OP was talking about!

Normally drama doesn't bug me too much. (Heck, I lurk on TTGP sometimes for the amusement factor!) but I'm just having one of those weeks I think.

I get it.  I only know about it because I was sick Saturday and spent most of the day trolling the bump. 

Oh and the crazy is one of the reasons I still post on TTGP, although the board has been pretty tame the last few months.

tptbabe

singingirl96 said:

Sorry ladies... Since the FFFC thread spread on all the boards I am on, I figured most of you would know what I was posting about... Since the comment is mostly directed towards us.

I would delete it, but there is no way to delete a post.   So, since there is no link to the original post, or any mention of what the original comment was, just ignore it and move on.

Have a nice day.

It's all good! I just didn't know what the heck you were referring to! Ignore mode = on.

Hope your pregnancy is going well, and your board drama settles down

tptbabe

Twinkie0612 said:

tptbabe said:

Twinkie0612 said:

IFinTN said:

@tptbabe I agree, poor form to cross boards like this. No one here has time for that drama:) it is one of the reasons I stay off other boards...

Eh. It's normal on most of the other bump boards to XP.  Infertility just happens to be a low drama board. 

I've seen people XP before, I just hadn't seen any mention of it on this board before, so I had no idea what the OP was talking about!

Normally drama doesn't bug me too much. (Heck, I lurk on TTGP sometimes for the amusement factor!) but I'm just having one of those weeks I think.

I get it.  I only know about it because I was sick Saturday and spent most of the day trolling the bump. 

Oh and the crazy is one of the reasons I still post on TTGP, although the board has been pretty tame the last few months.

I actually started posting on there *after* I started here, but then kind of started lurking more and more rather than posting. That's been the case on this board for the most part too though (but I still post a few times a week here). I don't really feel like I fit in anywhere, since we've been sitting ducks for the last 2 years just trying to get treatment started. I wish I had more to add to the convo!