How involved is your hubby?

Ktrue85

Supergirl2013 said:

Ktrue85 said:

Supergirl2013 said:

hckygrl909 said:

Supergirl2013 said:

hckygrl909 said:

Ktrue85 said:

Resorting to name calling and threats of violence. I bet you have a sunburst tattoo around your navel, too.

I was thinking a neck tattoo, a libret piercing and velour sweatpants with words on the butt.

This coming from who's profile picture strongly resembles a donkey or reindeer
)

At least it's not showing off my crotch.

And who's showing that off? Eww aye fo!!! Judging from that pic alone I don't even wanna imagine the hairy beast your carrying!

This woman is the mother of three children (allegedly). I can't imagine the environment they're being raised in; you know, with no father figure around and a mom who walks around pantless, throwing blows, and encouraging name calling.

A very good, happy and healthy Environment. I take care of my kids and my home, I doubt you can say the same with just one baby you pay no mind to as is. Damn shame. No wonder he was born early. You probably wasn't even taking care of him while you was pregnant.

You start to talk incoherently when you get angry. Sorrynotsorry. Remember, you're the one who shared with us that your H smokes with friends and won't change your daughters diaper. Methinks you're mad at your life. Maybe baby #4's daddy will be better.

Supergirl2013

ColeRose said:

SG seriously why are you even here? It isn't to receive or give support, it is clearly just for drama. That last comment blaming Ktrue for her son being born early crossed a massive line. I'm tired, I'm sick and quite frankly I'm fed up with your bullshit so why don't you find another board to post on.

Instead of being selective with what you are reading, go read every comment there was thrown at me. If they can dish it than I certainly can serve it.

clhathaway

Supergirl2013 said:

Oh and for anyone else who thinks like this and wants to add other stupid comments then go F yourself! Seriously if this wasn't the internet and in person this shit would not be happening!

You're right, because I would have told your H straight to his face. DF's friend got an ear full for his comments and I also let him know he's f'd in the head for his reasoning for not changing his daughter.

Supergirl2013

lrachelle80 said:

SG, you have said some things in the past that have made me roll my eyes or have unpleasant thoughts about you, but this thread contains some of the most vile phrases and insults I've ever seen on the Bump. I can't believe you're typing these words out to people, even if those people are strangers on the internet. Seriously, step away. Please. You are being truly heinous. 

I don't care what you have to say because clearly I was defending my husband this whole time from mostly everyone saying he was looking at his baby in a sexual way because he did not like changing her diaper and if that is not crossing the line than I don't know what is.

Supergirl2013

Ktrue85 said:

Supergirl2013 said:

Ktrue85 said:

Supergirl2013 said:

hckygrl909 said:

Supergirl2013 said:

hckygrl909 said:

Ktrue85 said:

Resorting to name calling and threats of violence. I bet you have a sunburst tattoo around your navel, too.

I was thinking a neck tattoo, a libret piercing and velour sweatpants with words on the butt.

This coming from who's profile picture strongly resembles a donkey or reindeer
)

At least it's not showing off my crotch.

And who's showing that off? Eww aye fo!!! Judging from that pic alone I don't even wanna imagine the hairy beast your carrying!

This woman is the mother of three children (allegedly). I can't imagine the environment they're being raised in; you know, with no father figure around and a mom who walks around pantless, throwing blows, and encouraging name calling.

A very good, happy and healthy Environment. I take care of my kids and my home, I doubt you can say the same with just one baby you pay no mind to as is. Damn shame. No wonder he was born early. You probably wasn't even taking care of him while you was pregnant.

You start to talk incoherently when you get angry. Sorrynotsorry. Remember, you're the one who shared with us that your H smokes with friends and won't change your daughters diaper. Methinks you're mad at your life. Maybe baby #4's daddy will be better.

No I became defensive when everyone started using the word "sexual" when it came to changing our baby. He does not, nor will he ever look at his daughter that way and for anyone to say that on here was crossing the line.

clhathaway

Mapeers3354 said:

Cashingn2 said:

Mapeers3354 said:

gwinnygirl said:

Also, I just cannot with breastfeeding = lesbian. I am truly dismayed a person like that is influencing a young life. Fucking gross.

The guy is gay most likely and ashamed by it.

That's a bit of a jump.

Quite possibly. But so is thinking a baby breastfeeding is lesbianish. I only meant that often when people jump to completely un-rational homosexual accusations it's usually a projection of something going within themselves that they are not comfortable with. No matter what this guy has got some sort of issues that need helping.

I'd say, either he was drunk or lack of brain cells from previous heavy drinking. His lady friend, thing, is nuts and she probably had a bit to do with it. You know, she acts a lot like sg. Hmm.

Supergirl2013

CitrusXoXo said:

Supergirl2013 said:

Ktrue85 said:

Do you know what's great SG? We don't need to insult you or make fun of your whore-like photos of you online. You admit your husband doesn't take care of his child; that he chooses smoking with friends over you guys. I'm filled with a sense of peace knowing that's what you've landed in life. The universe has a funny way of working out.

Whore like photos? Since you want to insult my pics I'm pretty sure physically I'm better looking in every way than you,and again go take care of that baby you have. He's probably crying and wondering if he will ever get a real mommy to pay attention to him.

Where are your kids?

It's 10:27pm they are asleep where else? Smh!!!

grannyweatherwax

Ktrue85

Supergirl2013 said:

CitrusXoXo said:

Supergirl2013 said:

Ktrue85 said:

Do you know what's great SG? We don't need to insult you or make fun of your whore-like photos of you online. You admit your husband doesn't take care of his child; that he chooses smoking with friends over you guys. I'm filled with a sense of peace knowing that's what you've landed in life. The universe has a funny way of working out.

Whore like photos? Since you want to insult my pics I'm pretty sure physically I'm better looking in every way than you,and again go take care of that baby you have. He's probably crying and wondering if he will ever get a real mommy to pay attention to him.

Where are your kids?

It's 10:27pm they are asleep where else? Smh!!!

SG said "SMH"! Everyone drink!

grannyweatherwax

Ktrue85 said:

Do you know what's great SG? We don't need to insult you or make fun of your whore-like photos of you online. You admit your husband doesn't take care of his child; that he chooses smoking with friends over you guys. I'm filled with a sense of peace knowing that's what you've landed in life. The universe has a funny way of working out.

Whore like photos? Since you want to insult my pics I'm pretty sure physically I'm better looking in every way than you,and again go take care of that baby you have. He's probably crying and wondering if he will ever get a real mommy to pay attention to him.

Where are your kids?

It's 10:27pm they are asleep where else? Smh!!!

SG said "SMH"! Everyone drink!

Oh no, where is my wine?!

notkateanymore

Can the PM say "you're banned you piece of crap human being?" This shit is not funny or cute anymore.

lollipoppoop

Supergirl2013 said:

CitrusXoXo said:

Supergirl2013 said:

Ktrue85 said:

Do you know what's great SG? We don't need to insult you or make fun of your whore-like photos of you online. You admit your husband doesn't take care of his child; that he chooses smoking with friends over you guys. I'm filled with a sense of peace knowing that's what you've landed in life. The universe has a funny way of working out.

Whore like photos? Since you want to insult my pics I'm pretty sure physically I'm better looking in every way than you,and again go take care of that baby you have. He's probably crying and wondering if he will ever get a real mommy to pay attention to him.

Where are your kids?

It's 10:27pm they are asleep where else? Smh!!!

And ktrues kid isn't asleep? You keep telling her to take care of her kid so I asked where yours were.

Supergirl2013

CitrusXoXo said:

Supergirl2013 said:

CitrusXoXo said:

Supergirl2013 said:

Ktrue85 said:

Do you know what's great SG? We don't need to insult you or make fun of your whore-like photos of you online. You admit your husband doesn't take care of his child; that he chooses smoking with friends over you guys. I'm filled with a sense of peace knowing that's what you've landed in life. The universe has a funny way of working out.

Whore like photos? Since you want to insult my pics I'm pretty sure physically I'm better looking in every way than you,and again go take care of that baby you have. He's probably crying and wondering if he will ever get a real mommy to pay attention to him.

Where are your kids?

It's 10:27pm they are asleep where else? Smh!!!

And ktrues kid isn't asleep? You keep telling her to take care of her kid so I asked where yours were.

Shut up already

Ktrue85

She definitely wins for most insults to board members and their children. She is a new level of despicable.

Supergirl2013

KateMW said:

Can the PM say "you're banned you piece of crap human being?" This shit is not funny or cute anymore.

Why are you still talking shit for then?

bcrossfeld

DH has been great during the last 3 weeks of his paternity leave. Not sure how that will change when he goes back to work, but he loves LO so much, I can't imagine that he will be less helpful when he goes back. I'll definitely miss his help during the day, though!

lollipoppoop

Supergirl2013 said:

CitrusXoXo said:

Supergirl2013 said:

CitrusXoXo said:

Supergirl2013 said:

Ktrue85 said:

Do you know what's great SG? We don't need to insult you or make fun of your whore-like photos of you online. You admit your husband doesn't take care of his child; that he chooses smoking with friends over you guys. I'm filled with a sense of peace knowing that's what you've landed in life. The universe has a funny way of working out.

Whore like photos? Since you want to insult my pics I'm pretty sure physically I'm better looking in every way than you,and again go take care of that baby you have. He's probably crying and wondering if he will ever get a real mommy to pay attention to him.

Where are your kids?

It's 10:27pm they are asleep where else? Smh!!!

And ktrues kid isn't asleep? You keep telling her to take care of her kid so I asked where yours were.

Shut up already

Take your own advice

Ktrue85

Thank you, ladies. Her comment is meaningless to me because I know what type of sad, pathetic person she is; the kind that would use an innocent baby as an insult.

Supergirl2013

The problem is

lrachelle80 said:

Supergirl2013 said:

No I became defensive when everyone started using the word "sexual" when it came to changing our baby. He does not, nor will he ever look at his daughter that way and for anyone to say that on here was crossing the line.

The funny thing is, I could have defended you, and I was about to, before I read everything else you said. DH didn't like changing DD1's diapers at first and never did, because she was a girl. Not for sexual reasons, but because he thought she was so delicate and he was scared to hurt her. He didn't want to, um, "dig in" to get the poop out of all the creases, so to say, because he was truly nervous about hurting her. And I think almost everyone realizes that there are completely non-sexual reasons that someone might be uncomfortable changing a diaper - even Cashing said as much. 

But after you talked shit about an awesome chick's PREEMIE CHILD? That don't fly, son. So when I say, "Supergirl, go home, you're drunk," I don't meant it like people say it when they're joking about the weather. I mean, please, literally, go home, and I really hope you're drunk, because there's no excuse for what you've said tonight. 

It's a jab to her being a dick to me. I wouldn't make fun of a baby, but I do question her parenting. So before you make this into something completely bigger than what it is DONT!

Done for tonight.

Ktrue85

Be done forever. What you said is here for all to see, and not one person found it appropriate. You're a vile type of creature and should be ashamed of yourself. Things like this have a way of following you around for a long time.

notkateanymore

Supergirl2013 said:

The problem is

Supergirl2013 said:

No I became defensive when everyone started using the word "sexual" when it came to changing our baby. He does not, nor will he ever look at his daughter that way and for anyone to say that on here was crossing the line.

The funny thing is, I could have defended you, and I was about to, before I read everything else you said. DH didn't like changing DD1's diapers at first and never did, because she was a girl. Not for sexual reasons, but because he thought she was so delicate and he was scared to hurt her. He didn't want to, um, "dig in" to get the poop out of all the creases, so to say, because he was truly nervous about hurting her. And I think almost everyone realizes that there are completely non-sexual reasons that someone might be uncomfortable changing a diaper - even Cashing said as much. 

But after you talked shit about an awesome chick's PREEMIE CHILD? That don't fly, son. So when I say, "Supergirl, go home, you're drunk," I don't meant it like people say it when they're joking about the weather. I mean, please, literally, go home, and I really hope you're drunk, because there's no excuse for what you've said tonight. 

It's a jab to her being a dick to me. I wouldn't make fun of a baby, but I do question her parenting. So before you make this into something completely bigger than what it is DONT! Done for tonight.

Do you seriously not get it? You told her that the reason her child came early was because she's a bad mother. WTF? You can not be that dumb. It's not a tit for tat thing. The things said to you are not the same. Please somebody on the Bump ban her and get it over with. It's ridiculous.

edenkeever

Gracious. This went way in left field while I was away...read the whole thing. At first I was laughing, but now--SG please find a different forum. Totally below the belt comments are not welcome here and I'm pretty sure you've dug a deep enough grave for yourself.

kerkma

My DH is very involved and hands on with LO.  On nights he doesn't work the next morning, we take turns getting up at night (I pump).  He takes over with the baby for a few hours when he gets home from work so I can get stuff done.  He has not shyed away from any of the parenting duties, including changings and feedings.  I'm pretty sure he's been puked, pooped, and peed on more than me!  I am awed by how much he just adores her, as this is our first baby and I was not sure how comfortable he'd be with a newborn right away.  So, I consider myself very, very lucky.  

My mom, jokingly, said that she'd watch the baby so he could go out with his guy friends.  He was very adament that he had no desire to do that.  I think the only time he's been away is for school (finishing up bachelor's) or work. On his first day back, he called me crying that he missed her!!