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5.4K and devastated

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Re: 5.4K and devastated

  • rainydayluckrainydayluck member
    I'm a dirty lurker. In grad school I got interested in fostering, but DH isn't on board. A coworker adopted and I like to see the happy stories. I kept up with your post because I kept hoping that maybe it would somehow have a happy ending. When it didn't, I kept hoping you wouldn't really give up. 

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  • orangecupcakeorangecupcake member
    I'm a dirty lurker, very rare poster. I don't feel I have much to contribute that hasn't already been mentioned most times. I'm not a fan of long commented posts that say the same things repeatedly, therefore, if what I would contribute has already been said, I opt out of commenting. Plus, I'm not always logged in, and don't want to log in just for one small comment (usually because it takes me forever to remember my login or password). I've followed your story, but since I'm not a regular poster, I feel awkward commenting on posts at times.
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  • 77abbi7777abbi77 member
    I lurk and I'm sorry. I'm silently rooting for you and wishing you good things. I am dealing with secondary infertility as my ovarian reserve has gone to s@&$. I am not sure what out next steps will be so I am just looking into all the options. I would love to adopt but not sure if its possible for us but I still look at this board and I have seen your story and I just want to see a happy ending. I meant no harm and I'm sorry to be a dirty lurker.
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  • NextChapter24NextChapter24 member

    Hello, I lurk and occasionally post when I am able to but signed in to post for this thread. IRR I am sorry for your loss. I have been lurking/occasionaly posting on this board for at least 2 years now- maybe longer- and have been following your story.

    Prayers your way!

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  • lorifromwilorifromwi member

    I just joined this board about a week ago and have been checking posts out so I can get the feel of the board and see if it's a supportive place for me to hang.  I've seen bump boards that just don't jive with me...and it's not good for anyone if I start participating to early (I sometimes lack a filter).

    That said, your 5.4K post then encouraged me to go back and find your story, which was absolutely shocking to me, even though I know things happen.  I'm also an adoptee (from birth) and any story that deals with placement problems always pains me so much.  I'll step away from ranting on the topic right now.

    Wishing you much better success in the future!

     

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