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  • hooligans4hooligans4 member
    Welcome to the board.
    So very sorry for your losses. I have the same view about testing early so That is why I don't. I both don't like seeing negatives and wouldn't want to see an early positive only to get period on time with a CP. So I don't test until AF is late.

    Do not feel guilty about wanting a child with your husband. You can be grateful for your son and still want another. I have two children 8 years apart and am very lucky to have them but I still want one more. Nothing wrong with that.

    Glad to hear you have an apt with a RE. That will give you your best odds of conceiving. After testing they will know what approach to take. This board if full of women going through every option if conceiving so which ever route you go you will have support here.

    We are a very welcoming bunch of ladies so jump right in and join our sometimes crazy discussions. Sometimes they are ttc related and sometimes not.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member
    edited January 2014
    Hi and welcome. I love how you and YH found each other again but I am very sorry for your losses.

    You will find this board very helpful. Great group of ladies :) Good luck at your RE appointment and let us know how it goes :)

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • heathereb23heathereb23 member
    What a great story about you and your husband! So sorry for the losses, hope the RE can make your dream come true. I am 35 and my husband is 43, I really want to give him a little one while he's still young enough to keep up with it!
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  • Davie813Davie813 member
    Welcome, and best of luck! I agree with pps--no reason to feel selfish. I feel a little guilty for TTC #2 as well (for different reasons), but we shouldn't. Hope the RE consult is helpful!
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    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • on42on42 member
    Hi! Welcome! Your story is similar to our, minus the child. This is a great board, hopefully you will find lots of support here!

    Sarah, 38 | Nathan, 40 | Maxine b. 11/2014 | TTC #2


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  • PrivateOnePrivateOne member
    Welcome to the group! This is a great place for love and support. Wow, you have a great love story in finding your true love a second time around. We're the same age and I can totally relate to your feelings of thinking you're too late in the game. Let those thoughts just wash away and fill your mind only with positive thoughts. Lurking on the PG after 35 is a great board full of successful women and even quite a few in their forties. It's a great pick me up. Best of luck to you on your continued journey!

    **** siggy warning - bfp & loss ****   ---- All Welcome ---

    Me: 44 - Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)

    IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
    IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
    IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
    IVF #2: Apr '    14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
    IVF #3: June '14     ...     Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
    Currently benched while determining how to proceed.

    "Keep going until you can't fail"

     

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  • PrivateOnePrivateOne member
    Welcome to the group! This is a great place for love and support. Wow, you have a great love story in finding your true love a second time around. We're the same age and I can totally relate to your feelings of thinking you're too late in the game. Let those thoughts just wash away and fill your mind only with positive thoughts. Lurking on the PG after 35 is a great board full of successful women and even quite a few in their forties. It's a great pick me up. Best of luck to you on your continued journey!

    **** siggy warning - bfp & loss ****   ---- All Welcome ---

    Me: 44 - Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)

    IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
    IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
    IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
    IVF #2: Apr '    14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
    IVF #3: June '14     ...     Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
    Currently benched while determining how to proceed.

    "Keep going until you can't fail"

     

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  • czarmomczarmom member
    Welcome!!!  I'm so sorry for your loss.   You'll find a great group of gals on here to support you on your journey.  Best wishes to you!

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    BFP #1 - DS 2007

    BFP #2 - 8/25/13 - mmc 10/10/13

    BFP #3 - 1/14/14 - EDD 9/30/14



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  • latershraderlatershrader member
    Welcome to the board! I hope you aren't here long. There is a weekly check-in for everyone, usually on Wednesdays. And there is a special weekly check-in for the ladies 40+. I love to read the check-ins to see where everyone is at in their cycle. Best of luck to you and keep us posted!
    *TW below*
    Me: 40 DH: 38
    TTC since November 2012
    BFP IUI Cycle 2 Dec 2016
    Baby Boy Due Sept 12 2017
    Elias (Eli) born 9/2/17 at 7:07pm weight 8lbs 10oz and 20.5 inches long!!


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  • jej05jej05 member
    Hi! Hope your RE consult goes well. Best of luck to you!
    Many failed IUI's (medicated and unmedicated) IVF#1-Micro-dose Lupron protocol: BFN IVF#2-Antagonist Protocol-transferred 1 8-cell grade A embryo: BFP! Missed Miscarriage- D&C 4/2011 IVF#3-Antagonist protocol again but no bcp's: August 2011 DOR, endo and cervical stenosis ER 8/16/11 3 er 3 fert w/icsi ET 8/19/11-assisted hatching- transferred (2) 8 cell embryos! 9/1/11=Beta#1=824 9/6/11=Beta#2=7337


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