I have 3 children and just found out that the baby I am carrying has Down's syndrome. I am scared to death. I only know what I have read on the web about DS and that is pretty limited. I will find out next week if the baby has any further issues. My question of moms of 3+, how is life with a disabled baby? I want to hear the good, bad and the ugly, my children now are 14, 10 and 1. I know my ex-husband will use the new baby and that mom has to give it more attn against me to my 2 oldest (he did this when my son was born). Thanks ladies/gents.