This is the first year we are having a party for the boys with friends from school. We just received a gift for each boy from one of their classmates who isn't able to make their party. But they will be going to her party next week. Should we get her a gift from each of our boys or one gift from the two of them? Up until now most of the birthday parties we've gone to have been for close friends. We usually get one gift from the boys to whoever is having the party because we are generally invited to their siblings' parties too so I figure it all evens out. But we won't be going to sibling parties for preschool friends so I guess it seems more fair to get two gifts. At the same time, I foresee going to birthdays to get pretty expensive if we buy two gifts each time. WDYT?