Late Term and Child Loss

Intro (long)

Hello all.
I've been lurking on here since my son, Micah, was born sleeping on November 30th and thought it was time to intro myself.
A little background. I have had 4 pregnancies and have one 2 yr old DD. I had a missed miscarriage in 2010, an ectopic this past spring and then recently lost Micah.
At our 20 wk ultrasound they noted multiple severe abnormalities and guessed it was trisomy 13. We were encouraged to terminate and made that incredibly hard decision after our geneticist described the the quality of life Micah would have, if he were to survive birth at all.
The trisomy 13 was confirmed after he was born and other factors suggested he likely wouldn't have survived to term.
It has been a very hard month, but each day does get a little better in the sense that I find myself able to laugh a little more and not focus solely on our loss. Our amazing DD definitely helps make that possible.
I find some comfort in reading your posts and knowing that I am not completely alone in my sorrow. I want to thank you all already for giving me support you weren't even aware of and hope to be able to give a little back.

Married August 20th, 2005 to the love of my life.

1st BFP August 6th, 2010. Missed MC discovered at 13 weeks. 

2nd BFP January 5th, 2011. Beautiful Harper born September 28th, 2011.

3rd BFP March 15th, 2013. Treated with methotrexate for ectopic pg at 7 weeks.

4th BFP August 2nd, 2013. Sweet Micah born sleeping at 21 weeks with full T13. 5th BFP July 1st, 2014. Praying for a healthy, full term rainbow!

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    Welcoming you with open arms. So very sorry for your loss of sweet Micah. 


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  • So very sorry for the loss of your sweet boy Micah. No one should ever have to make that decision.  We are all here for you whenever you need us.

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  • I'm sorry for your loss on Micah. The women on this forum are wonderful, and we understand your pain. Hugs.
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  • I am so sorry for your loss of your sweet Micah and that you had to make such a difficult decision. This group of ladies have been an incredible source of comfort and encouragement for myself these past four months. Know that we are here for you whenever you need us. ((Hugs))
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  • I am so sorry for your loss of Micah. I love the support this board offers, I hope you find it supportive too.

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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet boy, Micah. I hope you find this board to be a source of support. Sending you so many (((hugs)))
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  • im So sorry for your loss.. Micah what a beautiful name... ((hugs))

  • A big hug for you! I'm so sorry for your loss. I know all our babies are up there in the hands of God.
  • I'm sorry for your loss of sweet Micah. 

     
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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Micah. What a beautiful name. We lost our daughter to a similar trisomy last year. Feel free to private message me anytime. You are not alone. You have come to a very understanding and supportive place.
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  • Thank you ladies.

    Married August 20th, 2005 to the love of my life.

    1st BFP August 6th, 2010. Missed MC discovered at 13 weeks. 

    2nd BFP January 5th, 2011. Beautiful Harper born September 28th, 2011.

    3rd BFP March 15th, 2013. Treated with methotrexate for ectopic pg at 7 weeks.

    4th BFP August 2nd, 2013. Sweet Micah born sleeping at 21 weeks with full T13. 5th BFP July 1st, 2014. Praying for a healthy, full term rainbow!

  • I'm so very sorry for the loss of your precious Micah. Welcome.
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    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
  • So sorry for your loss of your sweet son, Micah. Welcome to the club no one wants to be in

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