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I'm back after almost two years.

I was on here about three years ago when we were trying for our second.  We had issues the first time it took 23 cycles but we never went for help and just waited so I was never on the IF board.  We ended up pregnant after 15 cycles but discovered that I had a MMC the same day we got benched for a very long time.  DH had brain cancer and we had to go though operations, radiation, and chemo.   I came off the bench in November and we conceived that very week, once again it didn't last long before another MMC.  
We live in the middle of nowhere and hate our current OB (she still thinks I'm pregnant even though the ultra sound showed only a sac when it had been over 4 weeks since we had BD and I have been bleeding).  They did not measure my hCG or anything else this last time so I don't know what happened.  The first MMC my hCG was not raising as fast as it should.  We are looking for a new Dr. and will be temping again so hopefully we can achieve once we try to figure out why they don't stick.

Me DOR amh .64 ng/mL  
DH Brain Cancer
BFP #1 12/11/08 DS born 8/23/09
BFP#2 10/13/11 DC 11/4/11
BFP#3 12/6/13 Lost 12/29/13
Told IVF is the only option and have not found a clinic that will take me.

Re: I'm back after almost two years.

  • Welcome! I'm so sorry about your losses.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 


  • Welcome. I'm sorry for all of the difficulty you have had to face lately.
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  • Welcome!  I'm so sorry for your losses.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for your losses.

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13

    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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  • Welcome and Good Luck.  I am so so sorry to hear about your losses.  


  • Welcome, and glad you are on the road to conception after such a journey!  Be your own best health advocate and find the best doc you can!
    Trying for #2 with IVF after damage done in a D&C left me with one functioning (but too scarred) ovary and tube to get pregnant safely without assistance. It's a really, really long story, but that is the gist of it.  We have one daughter (whose c-section birth started this roller coaster) born in 2012 after a miscarriage in 2011. 
    Failed 1st attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 3, 1 frozen embryo saved) in December 2013.  
    Failed 2nd attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 5, 2 frozen embryos saved) in February 2014.
  • What a tough journey. I'm so sorry. Welcome and good luck. I hope there are brighter days ahead for you!
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