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trizzietrizzie member
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Hi all, I am about to go through my 4th miscarriage. Two living children, one loss in between, and 3 losses this year: CP, BO amd I am not sure what to call this current one. I am not sure where this puts me on my quest for a 3rd. I am sad, broken and angry. I left my dr (an RE) angrier because I felt like he basically said, you have two kids and should be done. But, I can't stop the desire for one more and unexplained losses are heartbreaking. I am just broken.
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    smcniffsmcniff member
    So sorry for your loss. One loss has been terrible for me, I can't imagine three. No matter how far along you were or how many children you have already, a loss is awful. I hope you have plenty of people in your life more understanding than your doctor.


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    tjhougardytjhougardy member
    Im so sorry, I agree 1 loss for me is so hard I cant imagine 3. I would be angry too, I have 1 living child but would be so angry if a Dr made me feel like I should just stop. Hugs to you!
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    katib77katib77 member
    As it is your third loss this year, did he offer RLP work up? I am so sorry and RE would say that. They of all people should know not to say that. Mine is doing antibody testing and we're deciding if we want genetic testing on the miscarriage as well and this is my second loss this year.

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    trizzietrizzie member
    katib77 said:
    As it is your third loss this year, did he offer RLP work up? I am so sorry and RE would say that. They of all people should know not to say that. Mine is doing antibody testing and we're deciding if we want genetic testing on the miscarriage as well and this is my second loss this year.

    Thank you. Yes, we did the RPL in September after my third (overall) loss. Everything came back normal except a slight issue with the MTHFR. I was put on folic acid. So, my losses are "unexplained".
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    tumbleweed123tumbleweed123 member
    trizzie  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I'm so sorry for his thoughtlessness.  I can't imagine saying something like that to anyone...let alone a woman seeking help.    (((hugs)))
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    aschultz9aschultz9 member
    Im so sorry. Going through my 3rd right now. 2nd since september. I have 3 kids..really wanted another but i dont think i can live through this again so i am throwing in the towel.
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    aschultz9 said:
    Im so sorry. Going through my 3rd right now. 2nd since september. I have 3 kids..really wanted another but i dont think i can live through this again so i am throwing in the towel.

    I am so sorry. I think I have one more try in me. But, that is probably it.
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