To be honest, I am a naturally hopelessly hopeful person. I think it's my defense mechanism to be optimistic. But with regard to TTC, I just don't feel excited about getting pregnant. I definitely want to be a mom. I definitely want the experience of being pregnant. But I feel like I have been disappointed over the years so much, that it's just really hard to get in that hopeful place. It's hard to get excited. This cycle, I wasn't really let down by the BFNs, and I only used wondfos to test; I didn't spend a dime on my favorite: the FRER.
Some days, I feel like I just want to get pregnant so that I can stop worrying about it. Is this normal?? Does anyone else experience this?
Sarah, 38 | Nathan, 40 | Maxine b. 11/2014 | TTC #2
Re: Is this a normal feeling??
TTC #1 since 8/1/10; Me:41 and BRCA1+, DH:46
DOR (FSH 24.3)/ terrible egg quality ; homozygous MTHFR c677t
5 IUI's: 2/11 to 6/11 and 1/12= BFN
OE IVF#1-4 8/11-6/12= all BFN
DE IVF#1 11/12 bad embryos= BFN
DE IVF #2 2/13 BFP/Beta hell: m/c 5w6d
CFNBC 7 months, not doing well; decided on guarantee program at RBA w/frozen DE
DE IVF #3 1/14 ET 4BB; BFP;M/C 5w1d, incomplete m/c; MVA extraction in ER 7w1d
DE FET#1 ET 3/1714; BFP, beta 1 3/27= 197, beta 2 3/31= 1586, beta 3 4/7= 13879!!
First u/s= Twins with HBs at 6w2d! We are Team Pink x 2!!
K & K born 11/21/14 at 38wks 4 days
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BFP #1 - DS 2007
BFP #2 - 8/25/13 - mmc 10/10/13
BFP #3 - 1/14/14 - EDD 9/30/14
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
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same here, I just wait for AF, I may have a few moments each month where I think holy cow maybe? But that is for about 5 mins, otherwise its oh yes AF there you are I was totally expecting you.
I think its just a coping mechanism to keep us from getting hurt over and over again, to be a bit indifferent.
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Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
3 cycles clomid with Ob,
1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.
May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN
May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't.
February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing.
SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!
Miscarriage 4/23/15