1)Get back to looking like the hot piece of ass I was when DH married me.
2) give more to charity. Whether time, money, clothes, food, toys. I'm blessed enough where I can give more
3 ) let go of guilt. It's ok I'm not perfect
4) more sex. DH is fantastic and loves my body no matter what,so even if I don't make resolution number 1 it's ok(see resolution 3) because I'll embrace everything. I want him to know how insanely in love i am with him, I am and get over my own insecurities.
To be a better friend. I've lost touch with people I care about. Facebook makes it too easy to "keep up" without really keeping in touch. My old college friend reached out. She was diagnosed with breast cancer. Has been going through chemo and will have a double mastectomy in feb. She hasn't told most people. I'm honored she told me but feel terrible I've been so out of touch.
TTC #2: March - May 2014 - Natural cycles - no luck June 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN July 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN August 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN September 2014 - Clomid 50mg - Fingers crossed...
I know what you mean about being a better friend. I was a terrible friend to someone I really cared about.
She was considering a divorce and was really quite upset. However, I wasn't in in the right frame of mind myself and instead of being there for her I avoided her like the plague.
We patched things up after I apologised but things were never quite the same. At that time I had kept so much of my own struggles private that I guess I saw her admission as weakness which of course it wasn't. I just couldn't deal with an extra worry.
Cliche but whatever. I'm tired of being chubby. I want my pre-pregnancy body back
All of this! Dh and I have talked about it and we are going to try more to excercise like bike riding. I'm going to start over insanity and making healthier food choices.
BFP#1- April 24th. M/c-April 30th. BFP#2-September 11th. EDD: May 25th.
It's a girl!!! (:
Madison arrived on May 19th at 6:35 am (:
Definitely get back into shape. H says we can work it together but I'm not holding my breath on that one. Also, try not to get so stressed out about everything. I need to go with the flow more instead of flip out about everything.
Be nicer to my husband, save more money, drink more water, find out what's wrong with me and fix it. (I still have horrible pains near my ovaries every single day.)
We just moved across the country, so I would like to get everything organized and unpacked. We should be here a few years, so this is the first time we won't leave a ton of things in boxes in the garage.
Oh, and lose weight. Putting out can wait until 2015.
2) It kind of goes with number 1 but take care of myself more. I have fallen into the tendency of putting everything before myself and it has taken its toll on me.
3) Stop swearing so much
4) Have more date nights with DH and spend more time working on our relationship.
Be nicer to my husband, save more money, drink more water, find out what's wrong with me and fix it. (I still have horrible pains near my ovaries every single day.)
Have you been checked for endometriosis?
ing No, but my OB appt is Monday. That is the only thing I can think of. My mom had it. Praying I don't but at this point I just need answers. I have been in pain every day since my first pp AF.
I have it. Stage 3. I had period pain that were similar to how painful contractions are. I got an IUD and it helped tremendously. When I had the IUD removed I got pregnant right away even though I could have had fertility issues. They can do a laparoscopy to check for it. It is the only way to get a definite diagnosis.
Thank you for sharing that. My mom had a hysterectomy at 40 because she was done having children. So that makes me a little nervous. But is it true that the pain goes away during pregnancy?
Sorry to hijake the thread but when my pains are bad they also remind me of contractions and bring me to tears.
Yes the pains went away for me and haven't returned. The were horrible before.
I also have it and was diagnosed in my early 20s. I have been on continuous bc pills (no placebos / no periods ) for years(except when TTC and I had to do so quickly so I went on Clomid).
The good news is, endometriosis can be controlled with meds in many cases, and they can be a HUGE relief. Good luck!
I also have it and have had two laproscopic surgeries for it. The first they scraped it off an the second they sliced it off. I was on Mirena and even after all of that we got pregnant right away. I am unfortunately having pains again but waiting to see if it is just from having a csection.
I really need to get into an excersize routine before I go back to work. Once I'm back to work its really hard to fit in excersize when I'm working overnights, so I want it firmly established before then.
So....I have a lot...sorry if some of it is TMI! 1. Get my diet back in order basically just eat more fruits and vegetables, nuts, eggs, drink more water and eat less carbs and junk 2. Practice a little yoga everyday...go to class once a week 3. Go for walks everyday 4. Break my Amazon habit and get on a good budget with DH 5. Limit bumping to once a day....(this will be so hard to keep!) 6. Make a few new friends. 7. Take better care of my teeth - start using the water pick and the flossers 8. Have more sex (with protection!) 9. Stop caring about what other people think so much 10. Having a really fun year with LO!
Most of all, I want to stop quitting everything I start. I also want to kiss my DH more often. Sex isn't the issue but I can't remember the last time we actually shared a real kiss.
Re: NBR New Years resolutions!
To start actually flossing my teeth so I don't have to try and think of an excuse when I go to the dentist.
To make it up to a 10km run by October.
2) give more to charity. Whether time, money, clothes, food, toys. I'm blessed enough where I can give more
3 ) let go of guilt. It's ok I'm not perfect
4) more sex. DH is fantastic and loves my body no matter what,so even if I don't make resolution number 1 it's ok(see resolution 3) because I'll embrace everything. I want him to know how insanely in love i am with him, I am and get over my own insecurities.
Cliche but whatever. I'm tired of being chubby. I want my pre-pregnancy body back
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
All joking aside mine is to laugh more, scowl less and look better.
She hasn't told most people. I'm honored she told me but feel terrible I've been so out of touch.
TTC #2:
March - May 2014 - Natural cycles - no luck
June 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
July 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
August 2014 - Clomid 50mg - BFN
September 2014 - Clomid 50mg - Fingers crossed...
I know what you mean about being a better friend. I was a terrible friend to someone I really cared about.
She was considering a divorce and was really quite upset. However, I wasn't in in the right frame of mind myself and instead of being there for her I avoided her like the plague.
We patched things up after I apologised but things were never quite the same. At that time I had kept so much of my own struggles private that I guess I saw her admission as weakness which of course it wasn't. I just couldn't deal with an extra worry.
All of this! Dh and I have talked about it and we are going to try more to excercise like bike riding. I'm going to start over insanity and making healthier food choices.
Also, try not to get so stressed out about everything. I need to go with the flow more instead of flip out about everything.
*Make healthier choices in general
*Save money
O14 January Signature Challenge: Snow Fails
1. Stop swearing, especially when the LOs are within earshot
2. Lose the baby weight
3. Less time on my phone when the girls are awake
I will add to that: learn how to gif from the iPad.
2) keep the house cleaner (I'm a slob)
No, but my OB appt is Monday. That is the only thing I can think of. My mom had it. Praying I don't but at this point I just need answers. I have been in pain every day since my first pp AF.
Yes the pains went away for me and haven't returned. The were horrible before.
I also have it and was diagnosed in my early 20s. I have been on continuous bc pills (no placebos / no periods ) for years(except when TTC and I had to do so quickly so I went on Clomid).
The good news is, endometriosis can be controlled with meds in many cases, and they can be a HUGE relief. Good luck!
@nbatchen, I really hope your pains go away. It can be so miserable.
2. Be more productive with my free time.
3. Tone up/exercise
Me (32) DH (34) | |
BFP #1 4/5/12 | Natural m/c on 4/18/12 (6w1d)
BFP #2 8/23/12 | DS born 5/3/13
BFP #3 12/6/15 | DD born 8/23/16
BFP #4 2/22/19 | EDD 10/28/19
Cook meals since C can't live off pasta and toast like her mommy
Eat healthier
Try to listen more than I speak.
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1. Get my diet back in order basically just eat more fruits and vegetables, nuts, eggs, drink more water and eat less carbs and junk
2. Practice a little yoga everyday...go to class once a week
3. Go for walks everyday
4. Break my Amazon habit and get on a good budget with DH
5. Limit bumping to once a day....(this will be so hard to keep!)
6. Make a few new friends.
7. Take better care of my teeth - start using the water pick and the flossers
8. Have more sex (with protection!)
9. Stop caring about what other people think so much
10. Having a really fun year with LO!
2. Start knitting again.
3. Work out!
I also want to kiss my DH more often. Sex isn't the issue but I can't remember the last time we actually shared a real kiss.