TTC after 35

Weekly Check-In

Merry Christmas and Happy New Years ladies!  This week I am posting a bit early due to the Holiday's. This check in is for anyone on the board.  There is a new check in for ladies over 40 but you are welcome to post both places if you want.  Please intro on the main board before checkin in so we can "meet" you!

1. Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names)  and State you are from

2.   How long have you been TTC? 

3.  Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww  when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc)

4.  Experiencing any weird  "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?

5.  How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)


QOTW:
Do you believe in making New Years resolutions?
***siggy/ticker warning***

Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR,  DH: normal

 IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
- poor responder
***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
FET 5/20- BFP
1st Beta- 641
2nd beta- 2166
Sono- TWINS!!!!
Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks.  Healthy and no NICU!  So blessed!



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Re: Weekly Check-In


  • 1. Katy from Texas

    2.   18 months ( 5 since mc)

    3.  CD 6... This is my last natural cycle before IVF.  I have a hysteroscopy tomorrow and a mock transfer coming up. 

    4.  nope

    5.  Of course I am praying for that miracle BFP before IVF... doubtful it will happen but I guess it is possible.


    QOTW:
    Do you believe in making New Years resolutions? I believe in making goals with tangible outcomes. 
    ***siggy/ticker warning***

    Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
    Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR,  DH: normal

     IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
    - poor responder
    ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
    IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
    FET 5/20- BFP
    1st Beta- 641
    2nd beta- 2166
    Sono- TWINS!!!!
    Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks.  Healthy and no NICU!  So blessed!



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  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names) and State you are from. Sunni01, So Calif.



    3. Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc). Cycle cancelled due to only one follicle growth. Never had just one.



    4. Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww? Nope. Just waiting for meds to leave system to ovulate and start over.



    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc). Mixed. RE is also a friend and says she didn't want me to waste my $ on just one follicle, when I usually have 3-4.



    QOTW: Do you believe in making New Years resolutions? Sometimes.
    BabyFetus Ticker

    Me-39, HSG 2/13- clear. DS-IUI #1-3/13,300iu Menopur 12 days,3 days Cetrotide, Ovidrel Trigger-BFN. IUI #2 06/13, BFP EDD: 02/22/14 m/c (cp), IUI #3- BFP EDD: 5/17/14 m/c 09/13. Blood work/RPL panel- nk cell/MTHFR mutation- negative. Blood work all good. Unexplained reason for m/c. IUI #4 BFP m/c (cp) 10/13. IUI #5- 12/13 Cancelled. No response. (1)follicle. IUI #5.1- 2/14. IVF Bound

    ********************SAIF/ PAIF/ ALL ARE WELCOME***********************
  • Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names)  and State you are from
    Sarah, Washington State

    Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww  when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc)
    4DPO. TWW. Not sure when I will test - going to try to wait until 12 DPO as my LP is generally 12 days.

    Experiencing any weird  "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    Just super sore ( . )( . ), which is normal after I O.

    How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    Uncertain on when I O'd, timing, etc. Cautiously hopeful. Looking forward to a more monitored cycle in early January.

    QOTW:
    Do you believe in making New Years resolutions?
    I make attainable goals every year, and review them at the end of each year. Resolutions are unfair.

    Sarah, 38 | Nathan, 40 | Maxine b. 11/2014 | TTC #2


  • Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names)  and State you are from
    czarmom - NJ

    Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww  when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc)
    In the 2ww - cycle day 25 - DPO ??? I really don't know anymore

    Experiencing any weird  "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    I'm acting like an emotional psycho

    How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    If you haven't realized already, I'm insane this cycle.   While I believe that is perhaps a good raging hormone sign (?), the multiple BFN's I've gotten have made me in a low mood :(

    QOTW:
    Do you believe in making New Years resolutions?
    Yes and every year I make the same one - get skinnier :)

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    BFP #1 - DS 2007

    BFP #2 - 8/25/13 - mmc 10/10/13

    BFP #3 - 1/14/14 - EDD 9/30/14



  • @czarmom that is my unrealistic goal :) I don't make any because I always break them. It would have to realistic and not so crazy. I didn't put too much thought into this yet.

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names)  and State you are from. Kate from NZ

    2.   How long have you been TTC?  4 cycles

    3.  Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww  when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc) Just got my period

    4.  Experiencing any weird  "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww? NA

    5.  How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc) Am in a slightly strange situation (Other Catholics might understand). DH and I never married in the church. We are getting our marriage blessed next month. I would like to abstain until then, but that would mean letting this cycle go past. So A tough decision that I'm still thinking through.

    QOTW:
    Do you believe in making New Years resolutions? No. I don't believe in waiting for a particular day of the year to make a positive change. Also I think NYRs are setting yourself up for failure at what, to me, is a lovely time of hope and renewal.
    I do other things like between Christmas and New Year, I declutter and clean the house, and I reflect on the positives of the previous year and how to build on those. With the focus on, "starting as you mean to go on." rather than setting "goals"
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  • @Sunni01 sorry for your cancelled cycle... I had that happen to me earlier int he year and I was so upset.  FX for a better cycle next time!
    ***siggy/ticker warning***

    Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
    Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR,  DH: normal

     IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
    - poor responder
    ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
    IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
    FET 5/20- BFP
    1st Beta- 641
    2nd beta- 2166
    Sono- TWINS!!!!
    Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks.  Healthy and no NICU!  So blessed!



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  • @Sunni01 I missed this. I am so sorry about your cycle getting canceled. It stinks. Big hugs :(

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names) and State you are from

     heather from NJ

    2. How long have you been TTC?

     2.5 years

    3. Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc)

    waiting to test cd37 9dpo

    4. Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?

    Yes this weird vibration in my groin area its funny and disturbing LOL

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)

    Mixed was doing great BD every other day but it took so long to O we were gettig tired, but we BD on O so its possible!


    QOTW:
    Do you believe in making New Years resolutions?

    I have only made 1 that I ever kept and that was to never make another resolution :)

    Happy holidays Ladies!

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    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

  • 1. Heather from NY

    2. We just started, this is cycle 1

    3. 2WW and this is torture, does it get easier?

    4. Sore boobs, weird crampy twinges here and there, some nausea out of the blue this morning while I was driving to work...probably all in my head because I'm looking for it.

    5. Hopeful but not holding my breath, since this is my first cycle off BC and not sure if AF will come back on normal schedule. I assume I O'd but don't know for sure, didnt get my OPKs in time. Thinking about buying a fertility monitor, don't want to waste any time.

    QOTW:
    No, they always get broken so why set yourself up for the guilt?

  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names) and State you are from? Samuelismomma/Sally, Indiana 2. How long have you been TTC? 7 months 3. Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc) 4dpo? Counted day of trigger shot as 1st day of O 4. Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww? Not really but having sinus issues and really tired! 5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc) anxious and cautiously optimistic...hcg still showed when I poas ..so have to test it out! QOTW: Do you believe in making New Years resolutions? Not really I feel they set up some ppl to fail....
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  • Stacey from NY
    I'm in the 2WW from a FET on 12/20. I have tons of phantom symptoms already. Lol. Very optimistic this is out turn. Resolution: relax and drink less coffee!
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  • 1. Archi, New York City
    2. 3 Months for real (7 off pill)
    3. "Fertile Window" starting ovulation testing kit tonight!
    4.  I did experiance phantom symptoms last month during 2ww - odd cramps and nasuea
    5.  Hopeful but also I feel sorta like its not going to work and I'm already planning further testing/discussion with OB/GYN for January.

    QOTW:
    I do believe in resolutions but haven't decided yet!

    Native NYC-ers living in Switzerland - First time parents - 36 + 37

    TTC: 8 Months / BFP: 2/8/2014 / EDD: 10/20/2014  

    BabyFruit Ticker

  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names)  and State you are from

    ClaireH here, from GA - by way of CA.

    2.   How long have you been TTC?  

    This is our 3rd cycle after m/c July/ D&C in August.

    3.  Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww  when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc)

    2ww - CD 25/6dpo.  I don't think I'm planning on testing this cycle.  If I do, it won't be unti Jan. 7th.

    4.  Experiencing any weird  "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?

    Nothing.  Right now, today, it's a vacuum. 

    5.  How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)

    Starting out this cycle, I was really hopeful.  After getting CHs on FF, I just realized that we missed a bunch of days during my FW and now, I'm not hopeful at all.  Really kind of bummed about it.  I'm supposed to start testing with my RE in January and am now unexpectedly really nervous and scared about testing.  Weird. 

    QOTW: Do you believe in making New Years resolutions?

    I do.  I also believe in making daily/weekly/monthly resolutions.  We can change our lives for the better at any time!
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  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names)  and State you are from: MrsChaiffetz - Michelle - Cleveland OH

    2.   How long have you been TTC?  since 10/31/2009

    3.  Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww  when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc) - Trigger 12/25

    4.  Experiencing any weird  "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?  I get every symptom known to man  LOL

    5.  How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)  I had my HSG 12/16 so I am hopeful that maybe clean tubes will help with a BFP


    QOTW:
    Do you believe in making New Years resolutions?  I do.  It is always the same one -- Be Healthier

    Me: 35   DH:  29

    TTC:  Since 10-31-2007

    Dx:  Me: PCOS, an-ovulation    DH:  Nothing so far

    2007-2011 - Tried Clomid, Ovidrel Trigger with TI -BFN

    11/2013 - back to RE for new plan.

    Cycle 1: Letrozole cd3-7; U/S cd12 (27mm left); ovidrel trigger; progesterone test and suppositories - BFN

    HSG- 12/16/13 - clear and "Beautiful" per Dr. Attaran

    Cycle 2- Letrozole cd3-7, ovidrel trigger, progesterone test and suppositories-BFN

    BENCHED UNTIL FURTHER NOTICE



  • 1. Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names)  and State you are from
        OutdoorGirl10, IL

    2.   How long have you been TTC? 
         On & Off for 8 years

    3.  Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww  when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc)
         2WW with first IVF. Beta test on 12/30.

    4.  Experiencing any weird  "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
        Sore boobs and crampy/gas pains.

    5.  How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
         really hopeful but trying to temper my excitement. Focusing on work and projects around the house.

    QOTW:  Do you believe in making New Years resolutions?
       Yes, I write them down and look at them throughout the year and see how I'm doing
    Me:41  DH: 46 high count but poor motility & morphology
    TTC on and off since 2005

    July 2012: Infertility tests started at OB/Gyn, HSG and HSN all clear
    Sept 2012: IUI #1 w/Clomid - BFN
    Oct 2012: IUI #2 w/Clomid - cancelled due to cyst
    Nov 2012: IUI #3 w/Clomid - BFN
    Break to move and find new PCP, OB/Gyn & RE
    Sept 2013: first appt with RE
    Nov / Dec 2013: IVF #1 with ICSI split
      Dec 6: Retrieval, 4 retrieved, 2 mature, 1 fertilized
      Dec 11: Transferred 1 (Day 5)
      Dec 30:  HCG Beta, 4980. BFP!
     1 little bean!
    EDD: August 28 30 2014
    LO Arrived! August 31 2014

    All Welcome!

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  • @Sunni01 - so sorry to hear your cycle was cancelled.  hugs

    All those in 2ww - hope it flies by!!

    Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names)  and State you are from
    Meghan from Boston

    Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww  when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc)
    8 days post 5dt (first IVF), I think 13dpo (counting ovul as day of retrieval).  I am trying hard to wait until my blood test on the 30th; I am hoping I don't breakdown over the weekend and POAS!

    Experiencing any weird  "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    I started to feel a LOT better on Fri of last week and feel like I am almost back to normal post all the hormones and bloating and cramping from the stims and ER.  I am not really sleeping well - but that is normal for me - especially when I am anxious!  Last 2 - 3 days have started having some light / random spotting - which I tend to get a couple days before AF...so no idea what is happening - if it is AF, implantation, side effect from the Crinone suppositories or just all in my head!

    How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    Cautiously optimistic and very anxious

    QOTW:
    Do you believe in making New Years resolutions?
    Not really...
    ***signature/ticker warning***
    Me:37 DH:39
    TTC#1 since 3/2012

    Diagnosis : Unexplained Infertility

    3 BFN rounds Clomid + IUI
    IVF 1 - BFN, 1 Frozen
    IVF 2 - BFN, 5 Frozen
    FET 1 - BFP!!! EDD 1/24/15 Beta 1: 700, Beta 2: 2,156; 1st U/S 6w3d: HB 118bpm, 2nd U/S 9w3d: HB 171bpm

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  • Your Name or Screen Name ( not full names)  and State you are from
    Leanna from Virginia

    Where are you in your cycle? If in the 2ww  when will you test? ( Waiting to O, 2WW etc)
    Not sure if/when I ovulated. But CD 34 and I've started provera. All tests were BFN, so on to the next!

    Experiencing any weird  "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    None. Except today I've had some odd cramping, probably from the Provera.

    How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    Nothing. Just waiting to get to the next cycle...

    QOTW:
    Do you believe in making New Years resolutions?
    I usually try to do the usual "get healthy" stuff. We're planning on getting back on the wagon of healthy/clean eating.
    *TW below*
    Me: 40 DH: 38
    TTC since November 2012
    BFP IUI Cycle 2 Dec 2016
    Baby Boy Due Sept 12 2017
    Elias (Eli) born 9/2/17 at 7:07pm weight 8lbs 10oz and 20.5 inches long!!


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