How to tell daughter about her estranged father.

dearash

My daughter is 6 years old. Her father & i broke up when she was just months old. I havn't spoke to him in almost 4 years. He obviously doesn't want to be present in her life. he lives across the country also. What should i say when she asks about him? Thanks.

MesmrEwe

mbenit4 said:

As much of the truth as is age appropriate. Don't lie. It will backfire on you.

This!!!!  The truth is a funny thing because you never have to change or remember your story.  It also makes things easier to accept/understand.  But also, remember that it was a split between the TWO of you, avoid saying anything negative about him, keep it neutral for BOTH of your sides!

flyingsaucer

Don't just wait for her to ask. Start to talk to her about it. Be kind but honest. Remind her over and over that it has nothing to do with what a great kid she is