Is it just me, or is anyone else tired of comforting others about how they have handled your loss? In the past week I've had 2 different friends approach me to say how sorry they are that they haven't been around, haven't been asking about us, haven't been supportive. Of course I am so grateful and appreciative of them reaching out and telling me this, but both times I ended up sitting there telling them "it's okay" and "I understand" and comforting them, and really I have needed all the support I could get the last four months, and where were they then? I know it is silly to be complaining, I think I just needed to vent.
Me: 32 DH: 33 High School Sweethearts Married 5/28/2005
DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16. Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.