If visitors (to the NICU) having the flu shot is of importance to you, don't assume anyone you list on your approved visitor card has had their flu shot or ever will. *ASK THEM FIRST* before you put them on the list and/or inform them they have visitors' rights....
I just found out today that 3 of my 4 people haven't had the shot and don't intend on getting it. That's their choice, I understand, but I have to protect my little guy every bit I can right now.
Gotta figure out how to undo this while doing damage control. I'm too passive for confrontation and hurt feelings.
My kids aren't even allowed back because of a flu scare before LO was born and they had to quarantine the unit and change rules to NO children under 13, regardless of flu vaccinations per CDC.
(edited to clarify)