Vacuum D&C Yesterday...

ankanyo

I am so glad I chose the D&C route. I decided this was the healthiest option for me. It was painless, quick, and I have had barely any spotting. I'm thankful that physically I am doing good and this is over and done with, so I can begin to move forward without the worry, concern, or stress that I felt would come with waiting for a natural miscarry or taking the medication. Emotionally is another story...my heart is broken and I can't stop thinking of the what might have been and the future I imagined with my baby. I keep wondering why this happened and though I may never know I pray one day I can have a baby, I want nothing more than to be a Mom. Our Doctor said we could try again in March, so we will see. Prayers for all of you. I'm so sorry.

Rocks526

I am sorry for your loss. I was wondering how you were doing. I am having a hard time emotionally.I ended up crying at work yesterday, the first time no one noticed. The second time I was in a meeting and my manager noticed, not sure if anyone else saw that I was crying. I ended up sitting there because I didn't want to bring attention to myself by walking out of the meeting. Feel free to PM me if you need to talk.  

KMW08

I just wanted to give you a heads up that bleeding may start in a couple of days. With my first d&c I had light bleeding/spotting for the first few days. My second d&c I had minimal to no bleeding for the first few days, then light/spotting bleeding started and continued until I was exactly 2weeks post d&c.

francisc

thanks for this.  I'm about to undergo the procedure tomorrow.  

nightowl1989

It gets better. I promise. I had some light bleeding after my d&c that lasted about a week, so expect a little of that.