Seriously, why do you all get so bent out of shape when someone calls you a name or says something about you? Are we not all entitled to our own opinions? And trust me, I've been called A LOT worse by people who actually mean something to me. You should have heard the shit my mother and I spit at eachother when we actually had a good caring relationship. When it comes down to it, everything that was said, IT'S ALL WORDS... I'm not sitting there beating you all with a freakin stick. Get the f*ck over it. WORDS, sounds a little silly to get into a hussy about and attack someone because they have an opinion about something doesn't it? That's why I just said screw it and washed my hands of it all. Let's hope some of you can understand that words should not hurt you!!!!! They are nothing more than someone saying something that they think/feel. Because you WILL have other people who are going to go off and call you every name in the book, let's face it, remember next time that no matter what anyone says to you or about you or calls you, that you know the truth, you know that what they are saying they may be feeling but they don't know YOU. Make sense?
The first part I bolded is really not something you should be proud of. Honestly it continues to make you look bad.
The second part I bolded...um...no. I've actually NEVER had someone call me every name in the book. Maybe because I treat the people I love (and even those I don't) with decency and respect. Maybe because I know when to hold my tongue. Maybe because I actually DO care what people think about me, not in an insecure way, but because I know that I don't exist in a bubble, that my relationships with other people are important and can truly affect the course of my life...making it easier or harder. I choose easier.
I don't think this world revolves around me and my needs. In fact, its quite the other way and I do what I can to make others happy...because that makes me happy. And then everyone is happy and isn't that a nice way to live? For me it is anyway.
Re: How rude of you!
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