Feeling guilty

sjirishgirl

The last few days have been insanely difficult for various reasons. Everyone I know with multiples said the last few weeks were the worst. I have this overwhelming feeling of just wanting to be done. I want them out so bad but I know they will come when they ate ready.
Has anyone else gone through this?

LittleLady77

I'm not there yet but don't feel guilty! If I make it to 37 weeks I'm positive I will want them out too.  It's not like you're calling your doc asking for an early delivery :P You're right, they will come when they come but I don't think there is anything wrong with looking forward to that day.

Kissimi21

I'm sorry you are feeling bad, but please don't feel guilty about it. Every pregnant woman is fed up with all the aches, pains, stress, and wondering when she will go in labour by the last month, having multiples makes it even more so.  Your body and mind has been through more in the last 37 weeks than it probably had to endure in the last 10 years. It is not unusual to want a break. Just take it one day at a time.  They will be here before you know it.

I remember my last month of pregnancy.  I was so tired.  Every bone in my body ached.  It felt like I was going to be pregnant forever.  I just kept taking it day by day.  Just keep telling yourself that they can't stay in there forever.

TobieRose

Don't feel guilty! I was so relieved when the OB decided to induce at 38 weeks. I was DONE, heh. 

pillowass

I still shudder when I think of those last few weeks. Uncategorically awful. No guilt allowed! I know it doesn't seem like it but you are practically there. Relief will soon be yours! (and then a whole new kind of torture

tootsscott

No judgement here!!! Everything hurts,I'm absolutely miserable And somehow I'm surviving....

I'm sure if I ever mention having more children SOMEONE will slap me

raraavis28

Yeah, I don't think you're gonna get anyone on here who hasn't gone through that at the very end....what we do is no easy task. Hang in there....you can do it, it will all be worth it, and we're here for when you need to vent.
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