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I need to get this off my chest! (vent)

So I actually started my new job in full swing this week and I am so sore and tired from running around I just crashed when I got home Wednesday, Thursday and Friday and hardly saw DD. ( I work 12.5 hour shifts. ) Looking forward to a nice quiet weekend with the family, then pulling into our driveway around 11pm Saturday a cop pulls up right behind us with his lights on. My husband was driving so the cop walks up and asks if he is "so-and-so" and my husband says yes. Well I already know its bad because we were driving my car and his name isn't on the title. Cop says "Well I have a warrant here for your arrest." WTF!?!? We asked what for and he says I don't know and asks if we can think about what it could be. We have no idea so being a nice cop he goes to double check. Comes back, yup warrant out for my hubby because of a speeding ticket that we already paid!! Ticket was over $100 and they are saying we owe $65?? So I get the cash go down to station come to find out that the ticket was paid and the $65 was court costs that the bailiff was supposed to tell him about when he was paying the ticket on the way out! (He had to go to court b/c we didn't have the proof of insurance when he got pulled over.) The cop that arrested him said that this isn't the first time this has happened with the other police department and he is tired of their shit so he didn't put my hubby in handcuffs which I am grateful for and none of this will go on his record (except the original ticket). 

Thank God that's over! Then I get a call this morning from DH, "I hit a parked car." Good gravy and potatoes! Seriously? We got surprise snow last night and he lost control of the car. Nobody was hurt and our insurance will cover the other car but we have a $1000 deductible! Then after this cycle of clomid I will have new insurance and everything will get more expensive! Also trying to save up the down payment to buy a house March 2015 is our goal and shit like this just makes it worse. Sorry for the rant but I'm already hormonal without this shit and needed to put this train of thought out there!
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  • Oh, and to top it off this is our freaking Santa picture....I need a re-do!
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  • Whoa... Holy stress balls. *hugs* I would have had a heart attack and fallen over!!! That cop did sound nice though. I really hope things pick up for you.
    M:36/DH:43
    DD#1:16/DD#2:13
    TTC: since 08/2012
    IUI: met with clinic 01/13 - due to SA results - straight to IVF
    IVF Cycle 1: Long Lupron Protocol with fresh transfer and ICSI
    Baseline U/S 11/27/2013 - Lining 3mm and good to go go stim action!

  • That's a sucky day! I'm so sorry!
  • I'm so sorry :(
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
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  • Oh Lord, that is a lot. I do not even know where to begin. It's like the old saying- when it rains it effing pours. I am so sorry you are having to deal with all this shit. I can totally relate about BS ins (THANK YOU EFFING OBAMACARE) we now have the highest insurance option available, which means our weekly premiums just about doubled, family deductible QUADRUPLED, and we're still responsible for 10% OOP. It's effing ridiculous. This is what they call "affordable health care" then on top of that, I got the call from my RE's office, asking for me to pay the entire family deductible when I go in for my fucking baseline.. Ugh, last time I checked, I am 1 of 3, so why in the actual fuck are they asking me for the whole amount? Yea, this is so annoying. 


    Sorry I just dumped my own can of worms in here.. I blame all the aggravation of all time on the holidays.


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    #ALLDISRESPECTTOGREEDYPRESENTGRABBERS


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • I'm so sorry hun. I'm glad your DH is okay though.

    The Santa pic on the other hand is a big win in my opinion. A definite keeper. I think the crying ones are hilarious and adorable. 
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • I'm so sorry.  All that sucks!  I can't believe there would be a warrant for arrest of $65!  Seriously, there must be no crime in your city!
    Happily Mrs. C 
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    start ttc #1 in Jan 2009
    dx PCOS in May 2010, begin metformin
    Two failed clomid cycles (made lining too thin)
    Started acupuncture while saving for IVF in Sept 2011
    Add herbal infusions to the mix in Dec 2011
    Hoping holistic approach works!!!

    BFP on April 2012 at 11dpo
    Meepy Man born on Jan 2013 - Hip Hip Hurray!

    Ready to start ttc #2 April 2013, but plan to be an extended BF'er
    Back on metformin Aug 2013
    Restart herbal infusions Sept 2013 - currently drinking nettle, oatstraw, and red raspberry leaf
    DS weaned in April 2014
    Taking a break from herbs and just riding the healthy train.  
    Planning medicated cycle end of summer.  FX I get KU before then!!!
  • CheesyPeas is right it is a winner... So you can show her later on in life, how silly she was.  



      


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