DH and I have finally decided!

dpraseutsinh

After months of doubt and a week of literally talking about it for hours a day, we decided to be one and done. The idea of having a full house is beautiful. However, I just got my body back, I dont want to wake up every hour, I like drinking alcohol, and im so tired of buying diapers! The #1 reason though is money. Bottom line, our finances are more than enough for DD. With another baby? We'd be broke as fuhhhhhhhhh. Is it weird to say that im being OAD BECAUSE I love my daughter? So glad this decision is made.

Arcadia1114

Welcome! It sounds like you share a lot of the same ideas as many of us here. And I will second that wine and not buying diapers are nice perks to being OAD!

jlk5909

So awesome. I have a feeling we will end up oad because of how awesome or dd is & we want to be able to provide her with everything she could ever need...and some wants. . I don't think its weird to say at all...it would be weird if you said it was because you hated her.

KatieB19

Welcome! Not weird at all. We were one and done before ds was born, but now that he's here he's just perfect and I don't want to change anything.

PB102012

Welcome!! DH and I are also OAD due to finances mostly.

JoAnna914

dpraseutsinh said:

Is it weird to say that im being OAD BECAUSE I love my daughter? 

Not in the least.  In fact, it's a beautiful reason to be OAD.