(Coming out of the lurker shadows)
So DH wants to be Team Green and I want to find out. Because we found out with DS, I feel like I should back down and try to get on board with Team Green, but I'm really dying to know. Has anyone else been at odds with your SO about this?
Re: Can't agree on a team.
As for the comment on being a planner.....It takes an uber type-a personality to NOT find out because think about how much self-control and willpower you have to have to say no when that u/s tech knows the sex of your baby and you don't....way more than the "planners" who claim that they find out because they're planners, they just have no willpower :-) I'm the most uber type-a planner literally EVER, but I still don't want to know!
IVF/FET #1 - BFP!!
CJW 6/15/2014
DX - PCOS 2004
FET #2 - scheduled for 11/24/15
Pipsqueak born 6/9/14
If he can really keep it a secret, I would be ok with him finding out (as long as nobody else knows he knows). We will see when we get to that point... I think he's getting on board the longer we wait.
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2010: son born 9/1
2013: 2 miscarriages + d&cs, both at 10 weeks: April & July
2014: son #2 born 6/29
2016: Baby girl stillborn at 21w6d 4/29 and baby boy stillborn at 20w 3d 11/16
This time DH has left it up to me and I'm torn. The announcement at delivery was wonderful, but I am as impatient as ever. I change my mind daily.
I just want to know if we should be keeping all of DS's clothes or donating.
Plus the nursery I have planned is much more feminine and don't want to change it to be more gender neutral.
Georgia 3/15/2012 Matilda 6/12/2014 TWINS!! Babies 3&4 EDD 11/22/2016