@Amjoy and whoever.

AbandonedMouse

@Amjoy25 Lay it on me. And whoever want too. It will help me get over everything my papa has to has!

sleepy33

hartsl01

23Melissa28 said:

Dafuq?

my thoughts exactly

psychdoc12

I had to go back to her other thread to figure it out - apparently @amjoy25 said that she wasn't going to say anything because she couldn't say anything nice. I thought it was a pretty diplomatic response.

AbandonedMouse

Amjoy25 said:

DETrent said:

Wow. Everyone's being so nice. I'm going by the old "if you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all". Done.

Well she requested no judging. Doesn't that mean we all have to be nice? In all honesty, I'm being nice because I'm afraid karma would be a bitch if I was.

. Internet forum=I do what I want and give no fucks.

bkeane619

Wow a separate thread really? You have to realize you would be judged right?

AbandonedMouse

not trying to start anything. My dad was really hard on us when we told him about Donny being so close to Elizabeth. so with this one I'm sure he will have nothing nice to say either.

sleepy33

NRyan55 said:

I'm picturing @sleepy33 posting this

No this:

sweettooth87

If you want the truth, I think it's a bit selfish. There are so many risks w/ having pregnancies too close together, such as placenta abruption, placenta previa, preterm labor, low birth weight, etc etc. These things can happen in a normally spaced pregnancy of course, but your risk is much higher when you're knocked the eff up so soon. 

And in regards to having three?? so flipping close together:

ETA: because I forgot you had two already close together. @-)

sleepy33

Did the second gif show up?? I really really want it to.

bkeane619

sleepy33 said:

NRyan55 said:

sleepy33 said:

I'm picturing @sleepy33 posting this

No this:



Yea nope can't see

sleepy33

Sigh. Boring non moving one then.

allymp13

Ok now all I can think of is madonnas "papa don't preach". Insert Madonna gif...if one exists.

DETrent

So you're going from requesting no judging to opening yourself up to it.

AW much?

sleepy33

allymp13 said:

Ok now all I can think of is madonnas "papa don't preach". Insert Madonna gif...if one exists.

I looked for one. Couldn't find a good one.

allymp13

sleepy33 said:

allymp13 said:

Ok now all I can think of is madonnas "papa don't preach". Insert Madonna gif...if one exists.

I looked for one. Couldn't find a good one.


Well that's disappointing

AbandonedMouse

yeah I said no judging cause I was in bed with DH who does not know yet. I didn't want hurt feelings but now he's at work so he wont know if I have hurt feeling or not.

allymp13

Hold the freaking phone. Your DH doesn't know you're pg yet?

DETrent

AbandonedMouse said:

yeah I said no judging cause I was in bed with DH who does not know yet. I didn't want hurt feelings but now he's at work so he wont know if I have hurt feeling or not.

BlessUrHeart29

This is getting weird...

AbandonedMouse

Charlie1178 said:

AbandonedMouse said:

yeah I said no judging cause I was in bed with DH who does not know yet.

Uh...what??

Christmas is next week.

EmJ&B

allymp13 said:

Hold the freaking phone. Your DH doesn't know you're pg yet?

Yeah. I'm officially confused.

StefMurph

So this is his present? My husband would die right in front of the tree. Of course, I had my tubes tied so I can have just for fun sex!

sleepy33

AbandonedMouse said:

yeah I said no judging cause I was in bed with DH who does not know yet. I didn't want hurt feelings but now he's at work so he wont know if I have hurt feeling or not.

Ok, NOW I call bullshit. Also, can you have just one hurt feeling, singular?

baby101010

Really? You must be 12.

deedee1017

Thank you for your permission. 

First of all, I agree it is a bit selfish. Aside from the medical issues one person, even two, can only spread themselves out so thin. Three under three is three full time jobs which are not only emotionally draining but physically demanding. I also can't help but wonder how you can have time for your relationship with 3u3.

second, I'm not even sure I believe you. I have a strong feeling you just needed some entertainment. You showed up late to the game, never posted a pic or even contributed all that much and then you post this gem. You didn't want to be judged but then invite people in to "lay it on you."

You're an adult, and if you are to be believed, you are on baby number three, so you know how it happens. Your irresponsibility and selfishness leaves a bad taste in my mouth. 

kimbo1216

This is all rather suspect.

1. Why start a separate thread instead of just continuing the one you already started?

2. If you know how babies are made and didn't want to be pregnant again so soon, why not use protection?

3. See sooner's post calling you out with suspect dates. Nothing is adding up.

4. It is never a good sign when you have to request no judgment. It also means you aren't used to the internets. You should always be prepared to be flamed. It's just the way of the interwebs.

baby101010

I call bullshit.

DETrent

AbandonedMouse said:

Charlie1178 said:

AbandonedMouse said:

yeah I said no judging cause I was in bed with DH who does not know yet.

Uh...what??

Christmas is next week.


Ok...now I don't care if karma is a bitch...

Let's assume all of this is true. WTF kind of Christmas gift is that?! Since YH doesn't know already and you're obviously hesitant to tell him, I'm going to assume he might not be too pleased.

DETrent

awwwpuddin said:

AbandonedMouse said:

Charlie1178 said:

AbandonedMouse said:

yeah I said no judging cause I was in bed with DH who does not know yet.

Uh...what??

Christmas is next week.



that's a shitty gift. you should've gotten him an xbox.


I'm thinking even a tie would have been better.

sleepy33

DETrent said:

AbandonedMouse said:

Charlie1178 said:

AbandonedMouse said:

yeah I said no judging cause I was in bed with DH who does not know yet.

Uh...what??

Christmas is next week.

that's a shitty gift. you should've gotten him an xbox.

I'm thinking even a tie would have been better.

They clearly need SOME kind of a hobby, as evidenced by what happens if left to their own devices...

AbandonedMouse

okay so I don't use bc any shape of form. If God didn't want us to have this baby or if it is bad for my body then He wouldn't be giving us him/her. 

H and I have a very strong relationship and will always have time for each other. even with our 2u2 we still have more then enough time for each other. we are meant to be and 3u3 won't break us up.


Yes I am overwhelmed about having 3u3 but I know I can do it and everything will work out how it meant to. We wanted to start trying when Donny was about 3 months old. we just jumped the gun early. I wanted a Nov '14 baby not a Aug '13 but I'm happy either way!

Jalee85

Troll much?

EmJ&B

DETrent said:

awwwpuddin said:

AbandonedMouse said:

Charlie1178 said:

AbandonedMouse said:

yeah I said no judging cause I was in bed with DH who does not know yet.

Uh...what??

Christmas is next week.

that's a shitty gift. you should've gotten him an xbox.


I'm thinking even a tie would have been better.

Soap on a rope?

sleepy33

AbandonedMouse said:

okay so I don't use bc any shape of form. If God didn't want us to have this baby or if it is bad for my body then He wouldn't be giving us him/her. 

H and I have a very strong relationship and will always have time for each other. even with our 2u2 we still have more then enough time for each other. we are meant to be and 3u3 won't break us up.


Yes I am overwhelmed about having 3u3 but I know I can do it and everything will work out how it meant to. We wanted to start trying when Donny was about 3 months old. we just jumped the gun early. I wanted a Nov '14 baby not a Aug '13 but I'm happy either way!

Oh FFS...

pmarie33

NRyan55 said:

NRyan55 said:

I'm picturing @sleepy33 posting this

No this:

I found one that works (maybe)

My love for you grows everyday.

Aunt Edna

I call bullshit. In case it is true...

I'm a 2u2 mom and I still think you're a moron. Not for having 3u3 but because of all the other things the ladies have pointed out. Besides the other questions, are you and your DH able to provide for your family and another baby without asking others (including taxpayers) for help? Do you have insurance for your family? If you can provide for everyone then who cares what they think? Grow up, you are a parent!

AbandonedMouse

I call bullshit. In case it is true... I'm a 2u2 mom and I still think you're a moron. Not for having 3u3 but because of all the other things the ladies have pointed out. Besides the other questions, are you and your DH able to provide for your family and another baby without asking others (including taxpayers) for help? Do you have insurance for your family? If you can provide for everyone then who cares what they think? Grow up, you are a parent!



Yes we can. we aren't asking anything form anyone. we are not on WIC or anything like that. I'm not sure what made the other lady think that. I'm a sahm and H has an amazing job giving us more then we would ever need!

AbandonedMouse

Natalie2290 said:

AbandonedMouse said:

I call bullshit. In case it is true... I'm a 2u2 mom and I still think you're a moron. Not for having 3u3 but because of all the other things the ladies have pointed out. Besides the other questions, are you and your DH able to provide for your family and another baby without asking others (including taxpayers) for help? Do you have insurance for your family? If you can provide for everyone then who cares what they think? Grow up, you are a parent!



Yes we can. we aren't asking anything form anyone. we are not on WIC or anything like that. I'm not sure what made the other lady think that. I'm a sahm and H has an amazing job giving us more then we would ever need!

• My LC is threw WIC. She is free, I'm pretty sure that you don't have to use WIC to use her either.

  in Cost of LC appt? Comment by AbandonedMouse November 4

still doesn't say im on wic.

Aunt Edna

@abandonedmouse...you are a lying liar who lies, go away!

Ajoyd

I've been side-eying you for awhile. I'm now convinced you're full of shit.