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Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
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We'll my BIL tells me my SIL is pregnant:( I would be very happy but she had just told me , on our visit that her hubby was wanting another baby but she wasn't. It was to much work for her( their daughter is 2 in Feb) ..in the mean time on that same visit, I started miscarrying at their house. So I'm trying to grieve and be secretive at the same time:( I ask my BIL how far along she is and he said two months...so as I was miscarrying she got pregnant the same time she was complaining...how ironic......( I'm not judging her decision of when she is ready it's just age wise she has time :) I just wish we both could of got our wishes..me pregnant now ...her in a couple yrs....just a little sad...
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  • ksgsmuksgsmu member
    I am so sorry....
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    Me:36 DH:38 TTC#1 since 4/2012
    Me DX: Hashimotos,Hypothyroid, DOR, MTHFR,  DH: normal

     IUI #1-#4 BFNs and a few cancelled cycles in the mix.
    - poor responder
    ***Suprise BFP on 6/13/13. Natural MC @6wks 3days
    IVF#1 and 2- Cancelled due to no response on max stimms
    FET 5/20- BFP
    1st Beta- 641
    2nd beta- 2166
    Sono- TWINS!!!!
    Two Boys! Born January 2015 @36 weeks.  Healthy and no NICU!  So blessed!



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  • hooligans4hooligans4 member
    Sorry. (((Hugs))) to you

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

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  • on42on42 member
    I am so sorry. xoxo  Sending healing love your way. 

    Sarah, 38 | Nathan, 40 | Maxine b. 11/2014 | TTC #2


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  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    On42: thank you honey...the bright side for me is meeting you and having a buddy through all this! I reread your inspirational post, it helped me a lot today:) Thank you ladies for the hugs and sweet words:)
    ***ticker warning*** DS 3/27/12 born 6 weeks early....my perfect boy !! Lilypie Third Birthday tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers [url=http://lilypie.com][img]http://lb1f.lilypie.com/z5R8p1.png[/img][/url] image<a href="http://www.thebump.com/?
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  • ClaireHuxtableClaireHuxtable member
    So sorry. ((hugs)) to you.
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  • BeckyP005BeckyP005 member
    {{HUGS}}

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • HeathernStevenHeathernSteven member
    So sorry, this process is so unfair. Wishing peace.

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    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

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  • czarmomczarmom member
    so sorry.  :(   my 17 year old niece just told me of her friend (same age) that is pregnant with twins...and in 11th grade.   Just hard to hear when you are ready and established for a baby and situations like that get brought up.   :(   

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    BFP #2 - 8/25/13 - mmc 10/10/13

    BFP #3 - 1/14/14 - EDD 9/30/14



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  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    Yeah this has had me thinking About the fairness of life...that's for sure:(
    ***ticker warning*** DS 3/27/12 born 6 weeks early....my perfect boy !! Lilypie Third Birthday tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers [url=http://lilypie.com][img]http://lb1f.lilypie.com/z5R8p1.png[/img][/url] image<a href="http://www.thebump.com/?
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  • czarmomczarmom member
    @Samuelismomma I know, it's hard.  I always tell myself to not go there, and to try to remain positive. :)

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    BFP #2 - 8/25/13 - mmc 10/10/13

    BFP #3 - 1/14/14 - EDD 9/30/14



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  • czarmomczarmom member
    and at this exact moment my boss just handed me a box of baby stuff to send to his grandbaby.  SIGH.....positive thoughts :)

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    BFP #1 - DS 2007

    BFP #2 - 8/25/13 - mmc 10/10/13

    BFP #3 - 1/14/14 - EDD 9/30/14



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  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    Yeah positive thoughts...:-) :-) feeling a little better at least had positive opk tonight:-)
    ***ticker warning*** DS 3/27/12 born 6 weeks early....my perfect boy !! Lilypie Third Birthday tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers [url=http://lilypie.com][img]http://lb1f.lilypie.com/z5R8p1.png[/img][/url] image<a href="http://www.thebump.com/?
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  • czarmomczarmom member
    one step at a time, right? :)

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    BFP #1 - DS 2007

    BFP #2 - 8/25/13 - mmc 10/10/13

    BFP #3 - 1/14/14 - EDD 9/30/14



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  • Samuelismomma Samuelismomma member
    Yeah one step..had husband give me trigger shot...he said he had never seen anyone so excited...I said it makes me feel like we are doing something:-) lol
    ***ticker warning*** DS 3/27/12 born 6 weeks early....my perfect boy !! Lilypie Third Birthday tickersLilypie First Birthday tickers [url=http://lilypie.com][img]http://lb1f.lilypie.com/z5R8p1.png[/img][/url] image<a href="http://www.thebump.com/?
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  • PrivateOnePrivateOne member
    Samuelismomma - Progress is always a great feeling. FX crossed for you!!

    **** siggy warning - bfp & loss ****   ---- All Welcome ---

    Me: 44 - Hashimoto's (under control), DH: 38 - (minor issues)

    IUIs: 2 in 2012 ... Both BFN
    IVF #1: 10/16/13 ... BFP, however it was not viable and ended in an early loss at 7weeks.
    IVF #2: Feb '14 ... Cancelled. Positive beta at baseline appt, became very early loss.
    IVF #2: Apr '    14 ... Retrieval Only. 2 embryos made it to day 3 freeze & will be batched with IVF #3 for PGD testing.
    IVF #3: June '14     ...     Retrieval Only. 4 embryos growing, all arrested before day 5. Two from April thawed, but also arrested.
    Currently benched while determining how to proceed.

    "Keep going until you can't fail"

     

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