BLAH RE visit!

CeCe8579

So the RE did a urine test to see if I was pregnant and of course it was negative but he decided to do a blood test just in case although he was doubtful. We are taking a month off Clomid to do another HSG for me and SA for DH. We just don't want to waste the Clomid cycles and I think we need to focus more on family and the holidays right now. Of course 30 minutes after we left the RE's office, AF came in like a fucking flood! POTATOES!!!! After lots of tears, we talked about how we will move forward if everything is okay with my HSG and DH's SA which the RE is pretty confident everything will still be fine. Once we use up our 4 cycles of Clomid that we have left, we realized that we may not be able to do IUI or IVF due to my health issues, finances and DH's work schedule so we are considering local closed adoption. I know we are thinking ahead but I think it's easier for both of us to cope if we have a long term back up plan. I don't want to move on to cycle #18. I don't want to have a back up plan. I just want to be pregnant. I see all these stupid idiots  that have kids and should'nt and it pisses me off. I know there are tons of people who have it way worse then I do so thanks for listening to my pity party rant. Love my SIF ladies!!!

XOXO,

Mega Potato Launcher

pettycrocker

Uh... Big bummers. Well it looks like we're all on team BREAK CYCLE this month. At least we're all in good company. I don't think the repeat testing is a bad thing at this stage, you never know if anything has changed, and it's good to be on top of that shit. What if you're doing all these Clomid cycles and there is a problem with your tubes? Best to just rule that out, andplusalso don't forget the rate of pregnancy is super high the 2 cycles following that HSG, so maybe it'll be for the best! 

Hugs 

Jen071407

Ugh sorry December does seem to be the month of the break cycle. Grab a glass of wine (or beer!) and pull up a chair

Sweetest116

OH I understand the tears - I'm so sorry!  I'm with Mrs up there, she said it right... maybe it'll clear something out, it can increase fertility... so hey, best to go and try it again before giving clomid another go.  

CeCe8579

Mrs Castillo said:

Uh... Big bummers. Well it looks like we're all on team BREAK CYCLE this month. At least we're all in good company. I don't think the repeat testing is a bad thing at this stage, you never know if anything has changed, and it's good to be on top of that shit. What if you're doing all these Clomid cycles and there is a problem with your tubes? Best to just rule that out, andplusalso don't forget the rate of pregnancy is super high the 2 cycles following that HSG, so maybe it'll be for the best! 

Hugs 

It was actually my decision to ask for more testing because like you said, I would hate to use up all the Clomid cycles if we have other issues going on again. I got pregnant with DD the month after an HSG so I'm hoping for the best but ready for the worst. Thanks Mrs C!!!

CeCe8579

Jen071407 said:

Ugh sorry December does seem to be the month of the break cycle. Grab a glass of wine (or beer!) and pull up a chair

Thanks Jen! I think I will definitely grab a bottle of wine from the winery up the road from us tomorrow! 

Jen071407

@iloveshanej what do you mean by "use up all the clomid cycles?"

CeCe8579

Jen071407 said:

@iloveshanej what do you mean by "use up all the clomid cycles?"

My RE will only do 6 straight months of Clomid.

Jen071407

Ahh gotcha!

CheesyPeas

I'm sorry hun.  That really blows.  I have everything crossed that the HSG works its magic for you again this time around.

cerad5

Iloveshanej said:

So the RE did a urine test to see if I was pregnant and of course it was negative but he decided to do a blood test just in case although he was doubtful. We are taking a month off Clomid to do another HSG for me and SA for DH. We just don't want to waste the Clomid cycles and I think we need to focus more on family and the holidays right now. Of course 30 minutes after we left the RE's office, AF came in like a fucking flood! POTATOES!!!! After lots of tears, we talked about how we will move forward if everything is okay with my HSG and DH's SA which the RE is pretty confident everything will still be fine. Once we use up our 4 cycles of Clomid that we have left, we realized that we may not be able to do IUI or IVF due to my health issues, finances and DH's work schedule so we are considering local closed adoption. I know we are thinking ahead but I think it's easier for both of us to cope if we have a long term back up plan. I don't want to move on to cycle #18. I don't want to have a back up plan. I just want to be pregnant. I see all these stupid idiots  that have kids and should'nt and it pisses me off. I know there are tons of people who have it way worse then I do so thanks for listening to my pity party rant. Love my SIF ladies!!!

XOXO,

Mega Potato Launcher

I'm so sorry for your crappy day. I completely relate to "I don't want to have a backup plan, I just want to be pregnant". COMPLETELY . FU 2IF!!

freakyfast

So sorry, but maybe the HSG is all you need this time around.  That would be great.  Enjoy the holidays then we all can start stressing out January 2nd! 

CeCe8579

Thanks ladies! Love my SIF peeps!