Been MIA

Boing214

And I miss you ladies! I'm not terribly chatty most of the time normally, but with what has happened it really put a dent even more into it. Basically my coworker is trying to get me fired. She's having crap happen in her personal life and has decided to take it out on me. What's even worse is that she's been in her position for over 10 years, where mine was created to actually help her out a couple of years ago, so she's got seniority with many of the people up top. Ugh, it's been horrible and really has terrified me because I'm stuck worrying about what would happen if she succeeded. Luckily my one boss is being as supportive as possible, but there's only so many complaints she can field before she has to start doing monthly reviews and it goes permanently on my record. So, I'm looking for a different job and found a couple that would be really great, I'm qualified for, and would pay more. Applied, and then yesterday I was going over my resume again for another job and noticed a typo... in one of the very first items... so I probably won't get them. It just seems there's a lot coming at me all at the same time right now and so I just felt like I needed some alone time. Anyways, have missed you ladies and am really going to try to be around more, but until I'm away from that bitch no promises. Wish me luck! In the meantime, here's my updated Charlie from Thanksgiving. Sorry for the FB repeat.

ashleynaka

Aw! I have been super lucky and pretty much MIA lately too because of my new business. So sorry you are dealing with such a witch at work. Some people just need to learn how to separate work and home. Hopefully you don't give up and just keep complaining to whoever you need to so the company realizes they will have a bigger problem on their hands if they don't do something about her! Charlie is adorable!

aylafsu88

That is horrible! I am so sorry that your co-worker is being such a monster. Have you tried maybe talking to her and addressing the situation? It may not help but at least you two could be cordial while you are looking for something else.  FX that you find something better and soon.

zyas

Charlie is so cute! That really sucks about what you're going through at work though. I hope you find a new job soon so you can get away from that nasty coworker!

StokedWifey

I'm sorry you're dealing with such a craptastic coworker.  Going to work is already hard enough some days.  That situation probably just makes it miserable.  Fingers crossed for a new job with better coworkers!

breannie

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through that. I hope you find something even better soon and things improve! That picture is very cute!

lkamenko

Hope the situation at works will resolve - that must be stressful. We have missed you here.

Boing214

Thanks so much ladies! @aylafsu88 I actually had my boss tell me not to talk to this person on my own. In the meeting we three had my coworker verbally attacked everything about me as a worker and it would just be bad if we had to talk again. I need to have a witness present. This is also because the TW coworker keeps changing her mind on what my job should entail, since it was created for her. I think it's a case of chemo-brain but everything keeps changing and how am I supposed to do things when she keeps changing what she wants done and how to do it?

aylafsu88

cpasley said:

Thanks so much ladies! @aylafsu88 I actually had my boss tell me not to talk to this person on my own. In the meeting we three had my coworker verbally attacked everything about me as a worker and it would just be bad if we had to talk again. I need to have a witness present. This is also because the TW coworker keeps changing her mind on what my job should entail, since it was created for her. I think it's a case of chemo-brain but everything keeps changing and how am I supposed to do things when she keeps changing what she wants done and how to do it?

Wow! That is scary. I understand why you need to stay clear of her now. If she is having such issues with communication and verbal attacks hopefully your boss will put this information in her file as well. I really hope you find something better, soon!

nesenotes

That's crazy! I hope you find something better soon!

JAck5209

Oh my gosh, what a terrible situation! I'm sorry that you're going through this. At least you have that beautiful daughter to come home to every night. She's adorable in that coat and hat!