So I am curious...
If you celebrate Christmas, do you have a real tree or an artificial one?
If you celebrate Hannukah, do you have an electric menorah? Or a good old fashioned model with candles?
What are some of your favorite holiday decorations (ornaments, knickknacks, family heirlooms, lights, etc.)?
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Re: GTKY - What's Your Holiday Style?
If you celebrate Hannukah, do you have an electric menorah? Or a good old fashioned model with candles? DH celebrated Hannukah growing up, and his parents had an electric menorah. I hadn't been able to find one that I didn't think was too tacky previously, but my in-laws actually got a new electric model this year that looks really nice. I think I'm going to purchase the same to start using next year.
What are some of your favorite holiday decorations (ornaments, knickknacks, family heirlooms, lights, etc.)? I have boxes and boxes of ornaments that I can't wait to dig out every year. When I was little, my grandparents brought my cousins and me to a local nursery every year to pick out our own ornament. Going through them brings back so many good memories. I am also in love with our Christmas stockings. DH, DS1, and I have monogrammed red and white velvet stockings from PB that I adore. I couldn't quite justify the cost of buying two more this year, so I found some really similar stockings on sale at JCP for S&B. I can't wait to start decorating this weekend!
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IVF w/ICSI brought us our 1st precious miracle
V born via induction 4.29.11
TTC #2: IVF (MDLF) August/September 2012
ER 9/7: 6R, 5M, 4F ET 9/12: 5dt of 2 blasts
+HPT 9/17! Beta #1 (9/25) = 1,000 Beta #2 (9/27) = 1,860 U/S #1 (10/11)...TWINS!
1/8/13 - It's a..boy and a girl!!
S&B born via induction 5.8.13
1.) A real tree. DH and I always go cut it down and it's my favorite part of the holidays. Although this year was FREEZING, very poor planning on our end.
2.) N/A
3.) We don't have a ton of decor in our house - but we do have an ornament of an engagement ring.... I LOVE IT. It has or names and the date we got engaged. It actually broke last year - but I repaired it with some superglue. When I put it on the tree this year I noticed a piece was missing
Try as I might I could not find it - I need to make a note to re-order it.... preferibley in the middle of the year, when they aren't sold our with the Christmas rush 
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My MIL has a real candle menorah she uses; we don't have one ourselves as of right now, that's up to DH
I just made DH get the Christmas stuff from storage last night! My dad bought me and H a Christmas sign with our names on it a few years ago, and this year he got us a new one with the boys' names on there too (it's a snowman family) so I can't wait to hang it
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Our Christmas ornaments all have a special meaning. Growing up, my mom would go shop for Christmas ornaments with her mom as a yearly event. When my sister and I were old enough we started joining them and now that my grandma has passed away we continue the tradition with my mom. I love it! I collect all kinds of glass ornaments and each year I pick one or two that have a special significance for that year.
My favorite ornaments are Portland themed ones, the artist is my high school Spanish teacher's mother. I have been collecting them since the very beginning in the 90s. Every year I can't wait to see which landmark she has picked for the ornament. (Super nerd!)
I do use a fake Victorian style feather tree in the nursery. I decorate it with glass ornaments from the 50s which my grandma gave me since she doesn't decorate a tree anymore. They have nursery rhymes on them. I also use some felt mickey mouse ornaments my mom made when I was a kid and some crocheted Sesame Street ones my MIL had made for the tree when DH was a kid. I learned how to needlepoint this year and I plan to make some ornaments for my children to add to the nursery tree.
ETA: And yes, that makes a total of three Christmas trees if you are keeping track. Oops! tee hee!
3. I am a bit of a Scrooge when it comes to decor. I only like white lights and am so picky about any decor. DH always tries to encourage me to decorate more, but I'm too lazy to put tons of stuff out and take it down a month later. Our big tree has silver, blue, purple tones to it. But, as the boys get older and start making ornaments, I think we will get a smaller tree to keep in the living area. DH nixed stockings this year since the boys can reach up and pull them down. We have a nativity up, and besides the Christmas tree and lights/wreath outside- that's it!
*I feel like I should put a disclaimer here: I worked at PB one holiday season and got so Chrismas-ed out. Plus, my miscarriage and the canceled and failed IVF cycles were around this time and I sort of hate the holidays now. AHHHH! It's so horrible!!
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Yours doesn't have to be a sad story
I was raised Catholic and we always had a fake tree decorated with a variety of ornaments.
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FET # 2 Feb 2014 BFN
No more frosties
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PGD yielded 2 perfect 5d blasts
SET November 9, 2014
Nov 23, 2014. Another BFN
Not sure where to go from here.
We have a fake tree. We both grew up with fake trees so I guess it was sort of assumed. It's just so easy, especially since it's pre-lit! Eventually, I would like to do the whole cutting down our own tree thing, but right now, this works!
I started out with zero ornaments, no family heirlooms or anything. But we've actually started a pretty nice collection of our own! DH and I give each other an ornament every year, plus we started that with DS. Once you add those and all of our first married Christmas, first baby Christmas ornaments, etc. we have a ton and they each have meaning, so it's special.
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We have tons of special family ornaments. Right now only things are half up the tree so they don't get broke
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Picking a favourite Christmas decoration/ornament. That's almost impossible! But I have a Willow Tree nativity set that I just love. I have a willow tree angel ornament, and a whole bunch of old ornaments from when I was growing up. AND I bought a first year marriage ornament that means a lot to me. It broke a little a few years ago but DH fixed it
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Dec 27- third miscarriage
May 25th- Beta #1 369;May 27th- Beta #2 798
Baby girl born Jan 23, 9lbs 3oz, 21 1/2" long
May 27th-Beta #1 80; May 29th- Beta #2 304; May 31st- Beta #3 860
My favorite decor are the ones passed down from my grandmothers. So very special to me.