Needing some support today

violetmarie61516

Let me start by just saying IF sucks.  I hate the waiting and not knowing.  I wish we all had crystal balls!

I'm having a rough day today.  I'm super depressed and anxious about everything. I'm so irritable that I think I should have just stayed home from work today rather than put my co-workers through my attitude today.  I still don't have my January calendar and we haven't even paid yet.  Our money is just sitting waiting and I haven't heard back from our RE office yet.  I emailed them on Monday about the payment, it's due tomorrow Dec 5th for January cycles.  I never got a email back and now I've called and I had to leave a message of course.  I was hoping DH could take care of the payment today since he is off work but I've called him 11 times today and he hasn't answered his phone!  WTH.

To top it all off, my MIL texted me around 10 this morning to tell me that she is at the dermatology office and was dx with SCABIES!  O.M.G.!!!  She was at my house for most of last week!!!  That means I have to strip everything in my house and clean the entire thing from top to bottom.  She was in my car too so now I have to have my car detailed too!  UGH....so gross!

kjf114

I am so sorry!! I would call back the RE office for payment and get ahold of someone. and scabies oh my goodness I hope you get things cleaned.. how does 1 get that??

ttc23

I'm so sorry you're having a tough day. Sometimes everything seems to come all at once with IF and it's so hard to keep all the balls in the air at once. Going for a walk, doing some yoga or taking a nice bath sometimes helps me. Big hugs x

LSN8308

oh goodness! *hugsss* sorry you're having a rough day. as for the REs office, its their fault if your payment isnt in by tomorrow. you have proof of contact from the email and phone call and message you left about trying to get the payment in on time, so hopefully they get back to you soon and it doesnt effect your cycle next month.

tsk tsk DH! lol i hope he has a good reason for not answering!

omg my skin is just itching all over from reading about your mil! maybe you can take the day off tomorrow and get everything cleaned and be able to do something relaxing too

O2girl

I feel sad for you. You would think that your REs office would like to take your money and call you back right away! Just keep calling them until they respond... I did that once.... They were annoyed I'm sure, but I feel it is unreasonable to not contact someone back.

As for your MIL!!!! Yikes!!! Just the thought of scabies makes me itchy all over! It's also highly contagious... And easily treated with a medicated lotion. In my opinion At the first sign of itching I would hightail it into your doctor's office

Km672

I'm so sorry this is so stressful!!!

BLISS KISS

Praying that it gets better. Oxoxo

TaylorH84

You poor thing!! I'm so sorry you had such a terrible day! I hope things get better soon! DH owes you a massage and a huge glass of wine!!

Sunny B

I'm so sorry you've had such a frustrating day. AND I'd be so creeped by the scabies too. Blah!

kz's_girlygirl

Omg- I am so so sorry you are dealing with all of that stress!! I hope you can get ahold of the office tomorrow. And I hope your DH has a good excuse! He should help you with the cleaning

violetmarie61516

Thanks so much for the thoughts.  DH said his phone was in his coat pocket all day and he never heard it ring.  I don't know if that's a good excuse but it is what it is.  As for the house, we are still cleaning but I'm exhausted and have to work tomorrow so I know what my evening will look like tomorrow too.  I'm snuggling up with my puppies tonight and going to blow up my RE's phone tomorrow instead of DH's.  Hopefully I get results quick.