Hi! I am new to this board, and am posting looking advice for a family member. She is pregnant with her third child, and second child that she is planning on putting up for adoption. She does not have custody of her first DS as she has had continual problems with drugs. She recently came to live out with family near me, as her second DS and now LO (to be adopted by the same family) live out here and it is/will be an open adoption. However, her new OB has started to try to convince her to keep LO and not pursue the adoption.
Has anyone run into this before? Is this normal? I feel so frustrated because this doctor cannot possibly be aware of all the circumstances, and is now creating major doubts mere weeks before delivery.