What ever happened to...

MrsMcC.10409

@juliedave151

Thank you for thinking of us. Asher is doing wonderfully. 18lbs and 27inches at almost 6months, eating, sleeping, and growing like a champ. Despite his hectic 3rd tri, he's a happy, healthy baby!

I've become a dirty lurker due to annoying technical issues. I still check in multiple times a day, but posting is such a PITA that I don't post anymore.

giraffeluvspi

maryannespier said:

Has anyone seen any posts from the woman who had her DH call social services because she was BFing? I can't remember her SN.

adeb9562 is still around, says she was active a few days ago. If you're out there we hope you are well!

arlingirl

I'm with others...I don't remember most of this stuff!! I do remember some of the names and realize they don't post anymore.

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MrandMrsFireFighter

I'm active in the fb group. It's a great group of women. Not that you ladies aren't, but it's where I ended up, clutching my pearls. I post occasionally on the breastfeeding and cloth diaper boards.
I'm sorry for whomever didn't like the UO I had, but I'm not going to backpedal and explain myself, though my point didn't come across clearly.
My LO was 4 months old on Nov 20th! He is so awesome, and big! 90th & 98th percentiles. He has a white blood cell disease and is in isolation at home and he's a handful but I wouldn't trade it.
Thanks for thinking of me

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Lol this thread is fun! I wonder what happened to the one who posted hdbd every week- @gemini2005 was it?

babykk

zoeyjack said:

Lol this thread is fun! I wonder what happened to the one who posted hdbd every week- @gemini2005 was it?

Yeah, she usually started the thread.

Dubs1978

@mrsmc.10409 - so glad to hear you are both well. I was thinking about you recently as I had my A1C checked...I miss the Sugar Mamas thread!

jackson290721

Haha I love all the lurkyloos coming out from hiding.

andrea0418

LauraC122 said:

andrea0418 said:

Jasmine started the new fb group.

And straight up left us?  Boo!  I liked her.

Chunkymonkeylvr said:

Poor Lottie.

Who else left for good to the new FB group?

I joined the new fb group. Not too much happening over there. I just went and looked, jasmine hasn't posted on there in awhile either. She really is MIA.

arlingirl

Are the Facebook groups high falutin or something?

KKinATX

etoille said:

arlingirl said:

Are the Facebook groups high falutin or something?

Yeah they kicked prim out for I believe - wait for it -

Not participating enough.

Don't you guys remember when we were pg one of the FB groups had a document of rules that everyone had to sign? They had a post requirement and you had to inform one of the mods if you were going to be on vacation, etcetera. I did not join but one of my friends did and they booted her because she would not agree to sign.

arlingirl

KKinATX said:

arlingirl said:

Are the Facebook groups high falutin or something?

Yeah they kicked prim out for I believe - wait for it -

Not participating enough.

Don't you guys remember when we were pg one of the FB groups had a document of rules that everyone had to sign? They had a post requirement and you had to inform one of the mods if you were going to be on vacation, etcetera. I did not join but one of my friends did and they booted her because she would not agree to sign.

Uh...wow.

sparkymcgeee

arlingirl said:

KKinATX said:

arlingirl said:

Are the Facebook groups high falutin or something?

Yeah they kicked prim out for I believe - wait for it -

Not participating enough.

Don't you guys remember when we were pg one of the FB groups had a document of rules that everyone had to sign? They had a post requirement and you had to inform one of the mods if you were going to be on vacation, etcetera. I did not join but one of my friends did and they booted her because she would not agree to sign.

Uh...wow.

Oh that was fun. I remember it well. Lol Luckylindy. Bwahaha!

sparkymcgeee

I'm just gonna leave this here.

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12102212/eating-some-crow-here/p1

Clyde013

Is it weird that I'm super excited and proud of myself because I remember some of these girls since I only joined in April.

KKinATX

Meimsx said:

I'm just gonna leave this here.

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12102212/eating-some-crow-here/p1

Wow, I missed this post about Prim getting booted. That group was truly cray cray.

I don't think all FB groups are bad, though. My other BMB formed one after our kids were over a year old and we all knew each other well at that point. @Meimsx I think you said once yours did similar? We are all really really close in that group and I consider a lot of them to be close friends. But this J13 FB group was formed way too early and took themselves a little too seriously.

valstulas

@CDumovich do you have PPD?

@Lottie24 I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. Big, huge hugs! I hope you are doing well.

PrimRoseMama

Dccornel said:

I found Lottie under another alias. She miscarried so I won't divulge when and where. Sad for the crazy

Thats so sad.

sparkymcgeee

KKinATX said:

I'm just gonna leave this here.

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12102212/eating-some-crow-here/p1

Wow, I missed this post about Prim getting booted. That group was truly cray cray. I don't think all FB groups are bad, though. My other BMB formed one after our kids were over a year old and we all knew each other well at that point. @Meimsx I think you said once yours did similar? We are all really really close in that group and I consider a lot of them to be close friends. But this J13 FB group was formed way too early and took themselves a little too seriously.

Yeah we formed one after all the babes were born and it was pretty great for a while. Then some drama went down with someone forming a new group and only inviting certain people and then they would just sit over there and talk smack about the main group. So I did a see ya later suckers and left. I am still friends with a good number of them though. Love some of those ladies.  

Kitten80

Jasmineeelizabeth just posted on her page that she & LO had bad vaccine reactions and she has been a doula so not around. Can't link from phone, sorry.

I think 3 kids has sucked all the extra brain cells because also can't keep the crazy stories and bumpies and SNs straight. At all. I remember them when I read about them though.

valstulas

@jasmineelizabeth Sorry to hear about the bad vax reaction. Thinking of you and LO!

miss2697

I also think about Gemini often. I can't believe no one has mentioned Jessandtim. I wonder if they're still together...

miss2697

Also, sorry but Lottie is a lying liar. I was feeling semi bad for her so went to investigate her past posts. I didn't see anything about a loss, but she did post that she found out she was having a boy on November 3rd and was looking for boy names. Then, on November 6th she was asking about gender reveal ideas and mentioned she didn't know the sex of the baby yet. Sorry for going all CSI, but that chick grinds my gears and I seriously eye roll and at the mere mention of her name.

valstulas

miss2697 said:

Also, sorry but Lottie is a lying liar. I was feeling semi bad for her so went to investigate her past posts. I didn't see anything about a loss, but she did post that she found out she was having a boy on November 3rd and was looking for boy names. Then, on November 6th she was asking about gender reveal ideas and mentioned she didn't know the sex of the baby yet. Sorry for going all CSI, but that chick grinds my gears and I seriously eye roll and at the mere mention of her name.

Hmmm.... Something is mighty fishy.

miss2697

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12146432/looking-for-boy-names#latest

 

 

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12146439/hello#latest

 

babykk

What about @superzuber? I haven't seen her for a while either. I always thought her HDBD pics were cute!

Lelo2006

Oh my gosh! What a liar! Can someone call her out on that thread and post that on November 3rd she didn't know she was having a boy

opheliainwaders

Who was the chick that got all self-righteous at me for mooing about pumping all the time? The sense of humor was not strong with that one.

sparkymcgeee

gulickr said:

Who was the chick that got all self-righteous at me for mooing about pumping all the time? The sense of humor was not strong with that one.

Oh that was the super crunchy BF, CD, all around crusader.

We get Christmas ornaments every year and I almost got one that was a cow that said Got Milk. I thought it was funny.

valstulas

gulickr said:

Who was the chick that got all self-righteous at me for mooing about pumping all the time? The sense of humor was not strong with that one.

noraraeuc. She's not as bad as @springs1, but she still grates on me.

valstulas

That's my girl @maryannespier!

valstulas

I remember @superzuber's thread about loss. She basically made a post congratulating all of us for making it into the second trimester. A few loss threads had been posted just that day. She didn't mean anything by it, but it hurt a lot of posters. But I've seen her around pretty recently.

miss2697

Dccornel said:

The Lottie I found was under a different alias. Perhaps it was a different person????????

She made a third name??

dinomama13

I'm one of those who has disappeared. I hadn't been feeling well these last few weeks & dealing with a lot of bs in life. I'm trying to slowly make my way back in here with lurking mostly & posting here n there. Jae has hand foot and mouth disease so he's been taking up most of my time. Not to mention he's been a leech lately. And I found out why Aunt Flo was late. I was in the ER 2 night ago cause I finally gave in to the pain, cyst on right ovary. Along with holiday crazies and commotion I've been trapped out here in the real world. Sorry I abandoned you ladies. I promise I'll be back. Thanks for thinking of me

valstulas

@leahaziele91 I'm sorry you and Jae have been sick. I hope you feel better soon.

miss2697

etoille said:

miss2697 said:

The Lottie I found was under a different alias. Perhaps it was a different person????????

She made a third name??

if this is the person that folks are thinking is her I dont get the sense that it is.

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12183807/returning-to-the-board-after-a-loss#latest

I'm inclined to think that she doesnt have an alias .  She just hasnt posted since the beginning of Nov.  Like she always does.  She only participates to get attention.

Yea, I feel like our lottie was pregnant way before. I thought I remember it was right around the time my LO was 2 months.

LauraB1016

leahaziele91 said:

I'm one of those who has disappeared. I hadn't been feeling well these last few weeks & dealing with a lot of bs in life. I'm trying to slowly make my way back in here with lurking mostly & posting here n there. Jae has hand foot and mouth disease so he's been taking up most of my time. Not to mention he's been a leech lately. And I found out why Aunt Flo was late. I was in the ER 2 night ago cause I finally gave in to the pain, cyst on right ovary. Along with holiday crazies and commotion I've been trapped out here in the real world. Sorry I abandoned you ladies. I promise I'll be back. Thanks for thinking of me

Hand foot and mouth sucks big time!!! We just got over it (we as in LO and ME!) hope you are feeling better soon.

ashie624

ncchnat said:

Re: Superzuber according to my memory and the post-it.

The title of her post was "Yay-WAY fewer mc posts." She congratulated everyone for still being here now that they were in the "safe zone." She was given the benefit of the doubt by just about everyone and it was pointed out that while they appreciated the sentiment of being excited to be in second trimester, there were in fact at least two loss posts on the front page. 

It got nasty when MalloryReece came in telling everyone that they needed to "get a grip", that mourning our losses was being too negative, and that the loss mommas needed to stay on PgAL and leave this board alone.

It got worse when SZ came back and instead of realizing that how she titled her post was offensive, decided to flip her shit, pull the "you don't know my life" card, and refuse to apologize for upsetting people, including one of the women who had just lost her baby and posted one of the loss posts SZ blatantly ignored.

She then DD'ed that thread and posted another titled "Trying again" in which she again refused to apologize and tried to make it sound like she was an innocent victim, even though she posted some pretty nasty shit in her first thread. MalloryReece made another appearance white knighting for her.

She also DD'ed that thread because she's a coward and she was hoping that by DD'ing, we would all forget her twatwaffle behavior.

Since then, she only posts every once in awhile, pretty much only asking her own questions/being an AW and giving nothing back. She doesn't get called on it because the majority of us who were here for her shit show pretend she doesn't exist. I'm sure she's fine with that because we're all "too toxic" anyway.

MalloryReece has not been seen since then.

Wow thats terrible! I wasn't around back then..but I can't believe that BS. I've put my foot in my mouth before, but I apologized. People make stupid mistakes but atleast have the decency to apologize!!

BTW, great memory!