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I'm coming back

cerad5cerad5 member
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I went Monday for a normal appt. My OB wanted to do a quick US check of the heart rate. Only. No heartbeat could be found. I am having a D&C today. I am beyond heartbroken. I was 9 weeks 6 days, but the baby was only measuring 8 weeks 5 days. I am beyond heartbroken. We are benched for three cycles. TIA for your support. 
DD 12/1/2009
TTC#2 Since May 2012
Dx PCOS February 2013 on Metformin 1500 mg
Met with RE October 2013, we've got a plan!
Surprise BFP on "break cycle" 10/12/13. EDD 6/17/14.
MMC discovered 11/25/13 at 10 weeks. D&C 11/27/13.
BFP 2/8/14 Beta#1: 176, Prog 18! Beta#2:335, Prog, 19.5!
EDD 10/16/2014

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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Truly sorry :(
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • ScarletBegonia79ScarletBegonia79 member
    Oh no, that is heartbreaking. I am so sorry.

    TTC #2 since 8/2012

    IUI #1 April 2014: BFN

    IUI #2 July 2014: BFN

    IUI #3 August 2014: BFN

    BFP: September 15, due May 22nd 2015

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  • tuscanbride2007tuscanbride2007 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.

    ((HUGS))

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13
    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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  • bcw2009bcw2009 member
    I'm so very sorry! 
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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    I am so, so very sorry for your loss. ((hugs))

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • ally510ally510 member
    My heart is breaking for you. Last year I had a D&E at 15 weeks the day before Thanksgiving, so I can empathize to an eerie extent. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you cope with this loss. ((((((Hugs))))))
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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Aww Cerad, I am so sorry for your loss :( T&P for your family. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    I am so so sorry for you loss.  Lots of T&P to you and your family. 



      


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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member

    Oh honey, I am so sorry.  My heart breaks for you.  I hope your D&C goes okay and your physical recovery goes well. 

     

    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    ally510 said:
    My heart is breaking for you. Last year I had a D&E at 15 weeks the day before Thanksgiving, so I can empathize to an eerie extent. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you cope with this loss. ((((((Hugs))))))

    Looks like we have a Thanksgiving week D&C club here.  Mine was on the Monday before Thanksgiving.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member
    Oh no :( Sending you big hugs and T&P's.  Im so sorry darlin
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  • LuckyJuJuLuckyJuJu member
    Oh I am so sorry to hear your news. :(

    *hugs and comfort*
    M:36/DH:43
    DD#1:16/DD#2:13
    TTC: since 08/2012
    IUI: met with clinic 01/13 - due to SA results - straight to IVF
    IVF Cycle 1: Long Lupron Protocol with fresh transfer and ICSI
    Baseline U/S 11/27/2013 - Lining 3mm and good to go go stim action!

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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    I am so sorry! I will be praying for you! Hugs!

    Carly
    (Former UN: iloveshanej)

    Birdie born 05/01/2007
    Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017                                          


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  • cerad5cerad5 member
    Thank you everyone. It went well. I have to take Methergen for the next two days to make sure everything got out. And how weird with all the Thanksgiving losses? Hugs to all :)
    DD 12/1/2009
    TTC#2 Since May 2012
    Dx PCOS February 2013 on Metformin 1500 mg
    Met with RE October 2013, we've got a plan!
    Surprise BFP on "break cycle" 10/12/13. EDD 6/17/14.
    MMC discovered 11/25/13 at 10 weeks. D&C 11/27/13.
    BFP 2/8/14 Beta#1: 176, Prog 18! Beta#2:335, Prog, 19.5!
    EDD 10/16/2014

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  • lucky7wifelucky7wife member
    Late to this post, but so sorry for your loss. T&P to you and yours.
    Trying for #2 with IVF after damage done in a D&C left me with one functioning (but too scarred) ovary and tube to get pregnant safely without assistance. It's a really, really long story, but that is the gist of it.  We have one daughter (whose c-section birth started this roller coaster) born in 2012 after a miscarriage in 2011. 
    Failed 1st attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 3, 1 frozen embryo saved) in December 2013.  
    Failed 2nd attempt at IVF (Fresh ET day 5, 2 frozen embryos saved) in February 2014.
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