for my shower with DS#1 I wore jeans and a cute tank top thing. My shower was the beginning of March (8 weeks before EDD) and I was huge and hot all the time.
I wore black pants and a red top to each of mine. I wanted to wear a dress, but I couldn't find one that had a pretty pattern plus I thought I might be uncomfortable sitting in a dress with my legs apart. When I had my showers, I was already at that stage where I couldn't sit with my legs together. Also, I didn't want to wear heels and I was afraid my legs would be cold in Nov and Dec.
I'll probably wear khakis and a 3/4 sleeve top. Most things in my circle of friends (and invitees) are fairly casual, so I won't be dressing up. It's a co-ed open house at my parents' house. I'll wear better than jeans, but not dressy.
Re: What are you doing to wear to your shower? Or what did you wear?
Shower #1 with friends, Probably jeans and whatever shirt I like that day. It will be super casual.
Shower #2 with family (more of an older crowd) probably a dress. We'll see how I feel that day.
Whatever doesn't make me uncomfortable. Probably my black ON cords and a sweater that doesn't ride up too high.
*sigh*