I have only been reading/commenting on these message boards for about two weeks now and it has shaken my faith of my fellow woman and mothers in this world. I am disappointed to be placed in the same category as some of these women.
My oldest is 5 and my youngest is 11 weeks. And no one has all the answers. If you are a new mom I hope that you take absolutely everything on here with a grain of salt. These so called mothers that are on here to support and give advice are simply not nice. Not all of them but the mass majority just look for opportunities to be snarky, belittling, and rude. 95% of what is on these boards is a bunch of mean girls being mean while pretending to be mom's, from the safety of their computer.
I am not going to read or follow this (for lack of a better word) crap, any longer. Instead of these boards being helpful they are a place for ladies to belittle each other. That is literally 99% of the comments.
I am just posting this to let the NEW MOM'S know that YOU are in charge of YOUR baby and you do what is right for you and your family. Babies need LOVE and after that the rest is easy. Don't let everyone else's IDEA of what a good mom is construe your thoughts and what works for you.
I am well aware (thanks to said, fellow mom's) that is just the internet so how dare we expect anyone to act like a human being. And I am fairly sure that a whole lot of case and point is soon to follow. But good luck mom's, don't take yourself too seriously, and if you love you LO's, the rest will be just fine.
So,this is my FAREWELL post. I'm headed back to reality land and far away from here. <insert nasty video clip here>
Re: NOT NICE.
I've seen the light! For now on whenever any one wants to do something harmful to their LO like leave them alone while they go to the gym or give them choking hazards I will simply sing "All You Need is Love" and hope that their little one can thrive on that alone.
Thank you OP. I am a changed so called mother.
:xI donno, I've asked like 60 questions on here and have yet to be criticized or ridiculed or treated unfairly. But, then again, I do tend to think before I ask and I don't ask others to condone my forcing my infant to make my life easier by ignoring it's basic needs.
Good luck in reality land...reality land isn't much different than on here. Everyone has an opinion, they tell you how to better raise your kid and tell you everything you do is wrong and that it should be done how they did it!
In both 'reality land' and online you have to have some common sense, use your own judgement and make your own decisions while being informed how other people do things.
Alright then... (:|
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Nora Grace Due 12/26/2016
Two Angel Babies
07/03/2012
08/08/2015
"If you're still my small babe
or you're all the way grown,
my promise to you
is you're never alone.
You are my angel, my darling,
my star...and my love will find you,
wherever you are."
Nora Grace Due 12/26/2016
Two Angel Babies
07/03/2012
08/08/2015
"If you're still my small babe
or you're all the way grown,
my promise to you
is you're never alone.
You are my angel, my darling,
my star...and my love will find you,
wherever you are."
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Nora Grace Due 12/26/2016
Two Angel Babies
07/03/2012
08/08/2015
"If you're still my small babe
or you're all the way grown,
my promise to you
is you're never alone.
You are my angel, my darling,
my star...and my love will find you,
wherever you are."
Nora Grace Due 12/26/2016
Two Angel Babies
07/03/2012
08/08/2015
"If you're still my small babe
or you're all the way grown,
my promise to you
is you're never alone.
You are my angel, my darling,
my star...and my love will find you,
wherever you are."
I found this hilarious.
Nora Grace Due 12/26/2016
Two Angel Babies
07/03/2012
08/08/2015
"If you're still my small babe
or you're all the way grown,
my promise to you
is you're never alone.
You are my angel, my darling,
my star...and my love will find you,
wherever you are."
Couldn't help myself...
I tried to find one that was competitive... I couldn't but I did find this one that amused me.
Iris born Halloween 2013! 6 lbs, 1 oz, 18 inches long