Secondary IF

Disappointed

So we decided to go ahead with IUI this moth for those of you who read my earlier post. But I had positive opk today so today would have been trigger day with IUI tomorrow but DH is gone again as usual. Just so annoyed because this is not the first time I've done clomid only to be disappointed because DH is gone during the critical time. I'm especially annoyed because we have MFI so I feel like I'm really doing clomid for no reason. Sorry for the huge vent but I really struggled whether or not to do it this month only to again have it not matter!

Re: Disappointed

  • I'm sorry! Hopefully everything will time out the right way very soon!
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  • ((Hugs)) how frustrating.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • I'm sorry. ((HUGS))



      


  • Hugs that sucks


     6/09 right tube loss (fallopian torsion) 12/09 BFP #1 (DD born 9/10)
    8/12 dx Lupus (ANA+/APA-), 12/12 BFP #2  natural m/c 6w 2d 
    TTC#2  since 9/12  50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #1 Beta 10/4=BFN
                                 50mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #2 Beta 11/1= BFN
                                      100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #3 Beta 12/26=BFFN
    100 mg Clomid/Ovidrel IUI #4 Beta 2/14= BFFN
    Took a LONG Break
    Lots of Luck and Love BFPB for life KOFMKG
  • Thanks for the support. I feel better now. I was partially so frustrated because I stress to DH I don't want to do clomid unless we really can do it and he's always like go for it. He doesn't think through the logistics so I get stuck with taking something that makes me feel like crap every month. This could be avoided if DH really thought about it all and discussed his schedule with me.
  • Ugh.  That really really suck.  I'm sorry. :(
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • I am sorry. My DH doesn't get how much is involved either. Last month I told him that he needed to be home on Tuesday night. He made plans and said that he thinks he will get home in time. It is so frustrating to have to go through all of the meds and monitoring for nothing.

    ((HUGS))

    BFP #1 12.24.07 - DD born @ 39w1d on 08.26.08
    BFP #2 08.04.11 - DD born still @ 37w3d on 03.25.12

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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    TTC #3 since May 2012

    BFP #3 12.29.12 - CP @ 4w2d on 01.02.13
    BFP #4 10.17.13 - CP @ 4w2d on 10.23.13

    BFP #5 04.06.14 - MMC 05.07.14

    No longer trying to conceive.

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