Looking for some hope.....

O2girl

Hi ladies.

I am wondering if any of you experienced a BFP for your beta even though your HPTs came out negative?

I am 8dp5dt and all my HPT FRERs have been negative. My beta is Monday and I'm quickly losing all hope.
Thanks

kflynn81

Sorry I'm mobile can't see your siggy.... Was it a fresh cycle or FET? For my only BFP, although I did get a positive on a HPT pretty early on , I'm not sure how since my first beta a few days later was only 31.6 at 7dp5dt , apparently FET embies implant slower. However , either way I suppose it could be a late implanter ...FX for you that's the case.

O2girl

Sorry I don't have a siggy.

It was an FET... I have heard other ladies say that FETs implant slower but I haven't been able to find anything on the Internet about it

kflynn81

Here's something to back it up....you have to scroll down a bit but a FET can be a little delayed in implanting. Hope this is the case for you, gl on Monday

 

https://www.advancedfertility.com/fet-cycle.htm

O2girl

Thanks that is the first solid info I've read regarding later implantation for FETs. I guess I will just keep my fingers crossed, hope for the best, but expect the worst. I appreciate your insight. Thanks again!

katekat8721

I am praying so hard for you @O2girl! I have also heard that FETs can be late implanters as well. I am really hoping that's the case!

How are you feeling otherwise? Crampiness or anything?

74dragonfly

I just wanted to say Good luck! 

O2girl

katekat8721 said:

I am praying so hard for you @O2girl! I have also heard that FETs can be late implanters as well. I am really hoping that's the case!

How are you feeling otherwise? Crampiness or anything?

Thanks sweetie. All I can do is hope they are just taking their sweet time implanting. With all these tests I doubt it will ease my heart if it is a BFN on Monday.

I have been crampy... Less today than the other days. Nausea is still around.... Various times of the day... Which usually triggers my itch to test. I just don't get why the cramps and nausea if there isn't anyone in there. But I've been crying for the last 2 days.... I'm exhausted.

BeeBee08

I don't have any info, just wanted to say good luck!!!

FutureMrsW9

Awww I'm thinking about you and keeping my FX!  Do you know what grade/stage your embryo was at FET?  I ask because I think this also has to do with how quickly they implant.  I think crampiness is always a good sign, I know exactly when my embryo implanted, there's nothing else that would have explained the cramps that early on.

edit: typo

MJC1116

No advice, but just wanted to say that anything is possible. Good luck!

O2girl

FutureMrsW9 said:

Awww I'm thinking about you and keeping my FX!  Do you know what grade/stage your embryo was at FET?  I ask because I think this also has to do with how quickly they implant.  I think crampiness is always a good sign, I know exactly when my embryo implanted, there's nothing else that would have explained the cramps that early on.

edit: typo

All I understood about my blasts is they are triple a graded 5 day blasts.. I don't know if they are on the younger end older end middle... I have no clue. I guess I should have asked that... But honestly I don't even know what to ask.

golfrgal

Yes, my HPT on morning of beta looked negative and I cried in mourning all day...until I got the phone call that beta showed a BFP of 23. Stop looking at HPTs!!

ForevAAROSE

All my hpt were negative until after my beta. I even tested the night before and just knew this cycle didn't work - but beta came back good and now I'm 29.6 wks and LO won't let me sleep at 6am currently. Gl to you, don't give up.

O2girl

that is hopefully my situation. FX and wishing with all my heart