The father of my daughter abandoned me when I was 11 weeks pregnant. He said he couldn't handle it and when I refused to have an abortion his contact quickly ended. He stopped returning my texts and calls after a few heated discussions. After a couple months of being alone and pregnant, my ex (before my daughters father and I dated) came around and told me he wanted to be there to support me and help me raise this baby. Of course being alone and sad about my daughters father, I accepted this support and quickly he was back in my life 100%. I continued to text the father to see if anything had changed, even told him if he wanted to be at her birth he can let me know. I never got a response. A month after she was born he contacted me asking if he could see us. He held her, kissed her and apologized to me for being such a terrible person. He confessed about how wrong he was and said he was scared and didn't think he could handle being a father. Then he said he wants to be in both of our lives and wants to raise her together, as a family. Now I'm stuck between finally getting exactly what I prayed for during the 9 months and letting my ex back into my life, who has fallen in love with my daughter. Am I stupid for even considering a life with this man who abandoned me? Am I stupid for wanting a family with him and raising her with him? I don't want to hurt anyone but now the future of 4 people lays on my shoulders and I just want to do what's right for everyone.