I think the very hardest part
Is watching the world keep moving.
The days go by, the birds still sing, the sun still shines.
The whole world moves in a perfect rotation,
Doesn’t even skip
One beat.
The rest of the world must not know that
Mine ended that day.
My earth stopped spinning, and my stars stopped shining
And forming constellations of happy smiles and forms.
It’s so impossible to get out of bed.
Every single morning the sun comes up and
Demands
That the world carry on like nothing happened.
It doesn’t care that it hurts to breathe
It doesn’t care that I never got to hear her cry,
But I still dream about her voice.
It doesn’t care that she was cold, in my arms,
But I still have to see happy families on the street.
The very hardest part is that the world keeps moving.
It didn’t stop, not even for a second.
Everything happened so fast, and I’m having trouble just
Catching up.
I’m not saying the whole world has to drop everything
Just to let one person mourn…
I’m just wondering if it would be so bad
Just to slow down a little
Just a tiny bit
So I can stop running and just grab some tissues
And maybe wipe my eyes
Because it’s so hard to keep up with the rest of the world
When I can’t see where I’m going.
Re: Carry On
TTC since 2008
Dh:34, no issues. Me:31, Endo, slightly hypothyroid, deformed ovary, paracentric inversion.
4 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone +TI cycles= all BFN
Lap in 2012 to remove large unresolving cyst discovered endo and double lobed ovary.
6 Gonal-F, Cetrotide, HcG, Crinone IUI cycles= All BFN,
1st IVF w/ICSI- June '13 Antagonist: Gonal-F, Menopur, Ganirelix, HcG, Estradiol, Crinone= 7 retrieved, 4 mature, 1 unfertilized, 2 abnormally fertilized, 1 normally fertilized. 2DT of only embryo and our miracle BFP.
Our beloved baby boy was born sleeping Oct. 13, 2013 due to pROM/IC/Uterine infection.
2nd IVF w/ICSI- Feb. '14 EPP/lupron/antagonist: Estrace, lupron, HGH, Gonal-F, Menopur, HcG, PIO, lovenox, doxy/dex.=21 retrieved, 16 mature, 15 fertilized!! 5dt of 1 blast/ 6 frozen. BFP! Beta 1 9dp5dt:83.9 Beta 2: 11dp5dt: 145.2 Beta 3 14dp5dt: 497 Please be our sticky rainbow baby!
Thank you for sharing - I can definitely relate to these words, even a year later. I'm so, so sorry for your loss. *hugs*