Deleted. Thanks for all the support, and the safe place. You are all such wonderful people and have provided me with so much through the years. Thank you.
Please do keep posting! I think about your situation so much and though it's hard to hear that it's going poorly I'm glad that you have a place to talk about it. I'm SO angry for you and your family. You are handling it so well even though it's such a super messed up situation that's got the potential to actively harm your son. RAGE on you behalf! I wish there was an easy answer for you and it could be productively resolved.
AAAAAAUUUUUUUGGGGGHHHHHHHH is really all I can say. And maybe a Seriously? Seriously. I mean, really? REALLY? I'm so sorry people are so dumb. and rude.
This whole thing is beyond my comprehension. It sounds like you have the law on your side, but who knows how far they would be willing to push things. I am just so sorry you have to deal with this. It's just incredibly wrong. Have you/could you consider applying for SSI/disability? Would it help or hurt to have another agency involved? I don't know much about it, but I'm thinking about you and hope you will continue posting updates.
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Our beautiful daughter was born in October 2009. Turns out she was quite the miracle. After two years of TTC, diagnosed with DOR. A couple of failed treatment cycles later, we decided to let go of our hope for more biological children and explore adoption.
Wow, I can not believe that they would do that! I know that you have been having trouble with them, but this seems to be over the top. Can you go after them legally?
Also rage away. I have followed your story since I joined the Bump and I am always amazed by how well you handle everything.
Mother of two wonderful boys! Blessed through adoption.
Captain Serious, I have no idea what you posted since you already deleted it but I think of you often and I know you won't let go whatever issues you are facing for your family. Best of luck and vent away because I am sure you have every reason to do so.
Failed Matches - December 2012, May 2013, December 2013
Moved on to gestational surrogacy with a family friend who is our angel and due 7/23/15
Re: Update on us: Rage
That is ridiculous- testing without consent. I would be livid!!
5 Angels
Wow, I can not believe that they would do that! I know that you have been having trouble with them, but this seems to be over the top. Can you go after them legally?
Also rage away. I have followed your story since I joined the Bump and I am always amazed by how well you handle everything.
Mother of two wonderful boys! Blessed through adoption.