WTF Wednesday

sweetwalks

WTF parents of kids in DC's room. If there is a sign up list, please sign up! Two parents are bringing everything for the party tomorrow...UGH!

WTF, people. Just people in general. I'm apparently in a stabby mood and everything is just under my skin.

sweetwalks

@wendilea I'm getting there. I've had to deal with idiots directly the past two evenings, well after work hours and haven't had a moment to just be alone in weeks, so I'm going a little crazy.

+just+j+

This might be flameworthy too.

WTF Disney Dad XH. This is not a competition. When I buy her something, you dont have to always one up me. Our child is going to figure this out and grow up to be a spoiled, manipulative brat. No wonder your children grew up to be so entitled.

And when I tell you to please put our daughter to bed at a decent hour and not midnight, just say "ok". Don't tell me your girlfriend doesnt have a problem with it.

CurlyQ284

+just+j+ said:

 

And when I tell you to please put our daughter to bed at a decent hour and not midnight, just say "ok". Don't tell me your girlfriend doesnt have a problem with it.

Ughhh he irritates me. I don't know how you do it. Translation "I have a girlfriend J! Not related to the bedtime but I need another opportunity to bait you!"

Hopeforthebest

+just+j+ said:

This might be flameworthy too. WTF Disney Dad XH. This is not a competition. When I buy her something, you dont have to always one up me. Our child is going to figure this out and grow up to be a spoiled, manipulative brat. No wonder your children grew up to be so entitled. And when I tell you to please put our daughter to bed at a decent hour and not midnight, just say "ok". Don't tell me your girlfriend doesnt have a problem with it. 

Is he Bi Polar?

KTdidit

WTF union insurance?! It should not be this hard to get DS covered!!! After we got married in June DH added me and DS to his insurance. The plan was to cancel my insurance during August open enrollment since DH's is better coverage and cheaper. In order to add DS, the union welfare office requested more info on me and BD. I sent it. They said they needed a letter from BD's employer (at the time) verifying that he does not have insurance through them. In August I called to check on the status and they said they hadn't received anything back. I accepted the fact that we would carry double insurance on me and possibly DS until my next open enrollment session August 2014.

Well now because of Obamacare, we have another open enrollment session during the month of November. So I call the union welfare office again. I spent a cumulative total of an hour on hold yesterday and never got through. This morning I got through and the lady tells me they sent a final letter on 9/24 and haven't gotten anything back. She said I should try to get something from BD's previous employer. So I call the previous employer. They won't tell me if he had insurance or not, or even if he still works there. But they did say that they responded to the requests on 8/26 AND 9/9. And now I can't get through to the union welfare office again. I don't know what to do. Double coverage isn't a horrible thing but we are trying to get our of debt so the extra $300/mo that we are paying for my insurance sure would help with that! I just don't understand why this has to be so difficult!

+just+j+

From what i understand of bipolar, no. He is a narcissist tho. This really is no surprise. It is just annoying. He plays Disney Dad and spoils DD but passes off all parental responsibility to the latest girlfriend. He really is only as good as hus current woman.

KTdidit

Oh, and I have another WTF - WTF in general.

I got a Summons yesterday to testify in the trial of the man who possibly killed DH's baby nephew last year. I have to meet the prosecutor Monday morning to go over my testimony. I don't even know why they need me!!! I didn't know the guy and I don't even think he did it. I remember talking to the detective and they took pictures of some texts from my phone but that was a year and a half ago and I don't remember exactly what they said. 

So I have to take the day off Monday, and the trial next month is FOUR DAYS LONG. If I have to be available for the whole trial, goodbye to a good chunk of my maternity leave. I'm pissed. Plus that sends me into a tailspin of thinking about time off and money to cover my time off. We've had a lot of large unexpected expenses lately and I see our small new-house savings dwindle which sends me into a panic.

So WTF life. W. T. F. 

CFjo2010

wendilea said:

WTF DD?  How many times do we have to tell you "Calm your tits" is not an acceptable response to ANYONE?  You're about to be yanked back to supergrounded status. 

Um, I actually find this to be a perfectly acceptable to response.  In fact, I'm pretty much stealing it so tell your DD thanks 

CFjo2010

WTF people?  Stop telling me I'm "getting too skinny".  I'm not.  I cannot control where I lose weight from.  DH telling my I'm getting "too ribby" is not cool.  Nicknaming me "The McRib" is making me stabby.  Moms at school telling me my face looks gaunt is gonna make me a bad after school special, "PTA President stabs Judgmental Twits".  My ass is still big.  I still have hips.  I just lose weight in my stomach, arms and face quickly.  God, telling me I'm "too skinny" is just as bad as telling someone they're "too fat".  Quit judging me you assholes.

CFjo2010

GotGingy said:

@jobalchak I always lose from my waist first.  I can have ribs sticking out and still have a huge ass and thunder thighs.  My mom loses from her hands and face before anything.  Everyone is different, and they're probably just jealous anyway.

I seriously had a mom at the school (who I only know in passing) tell me to eat a cheeseburger.  Um, I eat like a frigging BEAST.  Seriously, I am constantly eating lately.  I was so pissed that she said that to me I responded with, "Sure I'll get right on that.  Shall I add a side of diabetes as well?"  I know I shouldn't have been bitchy about it but seriously, who says something like that to someone they barely know?

+just+j+

WTF people. Why cant you tell my 180 pound ass to eat a cheeseburger??? I would really like one.

+just+j+

Equal opportunity.

CFjo2010

+just+j+ said:

WTF people. Why cant you tell my 180 pound ass to eat a cheeseburger??? I would really like one.

Go eat a cheeseburger!!! 

coopsbaby

jobalchak said:

WTF people?  Stop telling me I'm "getting too skinny".  I'm not.  I cannot control where I lose weight from.  DH telling my I'm getting "too ribby" is not cool.  Nicknaming me "The McRib" is making me stabby.  Moms at school telling me my face looks gaunt is gonna make me a bad after school special, "PTA President stabs Judgmental Twits".  My ass is still big.  I still have hips.  I just lose weight in my stomach, arms and face quickly.  God, telling me I'm "too skinny" is just as bad as telling someone they're "too fat".  Quit judging me you assholes.

I hate that shiz! My dd gets that a lot, she's a runner and plays soccer and she tends to loe weight in her stomach area first and gets "ribby", and then adults will comment. Uncool to comment on a teenage girl's weight EVER. Once a few months ago we topped at Kwik Trip to buy donut before school for dd to take to her strings group, and the clerk said it looked like she needed a few donuts... and a cheeseburger. WTF! She is a very healthy weight and eats fricking nonstop. She's just very active, and activity makes you thin. But thank fr making my child feel self conscious. People are assholes.

Hopeforthebest

Having trouble feeling sorry for the skinny stripper SM. :P

CFjo2010

Hopeforthebest said:

Having trouble feeling sorry for the skinny stripper SM. :P

I know.  I know.  My diamond shoes are too tight and my wallet is too small for all my money...

But seriously, it's really frigging annoying and pretty hurtful to have people tell me that crap.  And to have it come from DH makes it even more frustrating.

Lavender P

WTF self! You are doing so good working out but aren't losing any weight because you are eating all the candy for Halloween! The holidays aren't even here yet an you are already off your healthy eating.

WTF work! I'm dying to know if I got this promotion and you are dragging it out forever. (Hence the crappy eating...see above) Just tell me already!

WTF SS! I'm so over your blasé attitude about school. If you want to be lazy and don't care about your grades, that is your choice. However, do not think that you can do nothing in life and still go on fabulous vacations, live in a nice house an have nice stuff. Your dad and I work our asses off for the things we have. You don't see us on the weekdays when we are gone 12 hours and busting our butt. You show up on Friday and want to know what fun things we are going to do/pay for without a thought of how we earned that money. Next time you suggest that we can 'save for a few weeks' to go to Europe, you are going to get a response you won't like.

Nineoceans

wtf neighbor, thanks for letting your dog dig into our yard and dig up our back yard. Here's an idea, supervise your animals or don't have them!

Wtf self don't be pissed when all clients want to meet on evenings and weekends, it comes with the territory

emme022

GotGingy said:

jobalchak said:

GotGingy said:

@jobalchak I always lose from my waist first.  I can have ribs sticking out and still have a huge ass and thunder thighs.  My mom loses from her hands and face before anything.  Everyone is different, and they're probably just jealous anyway.

I seriously had a mom at the school (who I only know in passing) tell me to eat a cheeseburger.  Um, I eat like a frigging BEAST.  Seriously, I am constantly eating lately.  I was so pissed that she said that to me I responded with, "Sure I'll get right on that.  Shall I add a side of diabetes as well?"  I know I shouldn't have been bitchy about it but seriously, who says something like that to someone they barely know?

People are ridiculous.  I hate the "eat a cheeseburger" line that people use.  It's just as bad as fat-shaming and slut-shaming and whatever other way people are finding to treat women like shit.

The crappy part of all of that too is that my brother has always been really skinny and had trouble actually putting on weight but no one ever commented on his weight the way they seem to with women.  I also get the lovely comments like OH you look so good now that you lost some weight(so I looked like crap before?) or "subtle" hint about food etc from my naturally thin cousin who thinks I'm just lazy.  Seems like people are always either to thin or to heavy

emme022

WTF SO's work,  You told him you were going to promote him to Supervisor in July, it is now almost November and still no promotion or raise.  And we really need the extra money...this is why SO is now looking for other jobs and I know you'll regret not having him to do all the work for you when he leaves

HisChamaoleGirl

jobalchak said:

Hopeforthebest said:

Having trouble feeling sorry for the skinny stripper SM. :P

I know.  I know.  My diamond shoes are too tight and my wallet is too small for all my money...

But seriously, it's really frigging annoying and pretty hurtful to have people tell me that crap.  And to have it come from DH makes it even more frustrating.


I am loving the Chandler reference