This am we had our WTF (I guess it falls in that category) after our missed miscarriage. DH and my karyotyping both came back norma, so no balanced translocation for us fortunately. Our RE says that PGS isn't worth the money at this point in time. I am pretty sure I agree with him but am super apprehensive about doing another FET with they embryos we have. I feel like it should have worked by now if it was going to, like something might have been wrong with the cycle they retrieved 18 eggs from me. I am not sure it's worth a second opinion or if I am just overthinking things. I guess for now I am waiting for CD1.
Me = 36 with PCOS and 1 tube removed for a cyst and adhesions
DH = 35 with low morphology
April '09 IVF (antagonist protocol) = 5R5M, none fertilized, cancelled at ET
May/June '09 IVF/ICSI = 6R6M6F, 2ET on 6.18.09, 1 frostie, Beta on
I know how hard it can be to not feel defeated but try and keep pushing forward, just taking it one small step at a time. I'm not sure that I agree with you regarding there being something wrong or jinxed about the eggs retrieved that cycle but I can see where you would think that. Maybe a second opinion is in order, or maybe you just need a little more time and space from all of this to see things in a new light.
Huge hugs to you and I'm glad you at least got good news on your karotyping.
Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12
Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck. Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.
No advice, but I hope that the next FET beings you a sweet little baby! Hugs!
TTC Since 3/2010 Me-36, Unexplained Infertility, DH-35, all clear Clomid 50mg 12/2011 = BFN Clomid 100mg 1/2012 = BFN, with Cyst IVF #1 Lupron/Menopur/Gonal-f/HCG Trigger ER 4/19/12 = 11 retrieved, 6 fertilized, ET 4/22/12 = 2 transfered (day 3), remaining 3 weren't good enough to freeze Beta 5/3 = BFP, 87 Beta #2 5/7 560.9 Beta #3 5/9 1376.5 First u/s One Baby, 125bpm! Second u/s, 176bmp! Kicked over to the OB by the RE at 8w. Team Green!!
Baby girl J arrived two weeks early! Born into water, med-free. Hooray for Team Pink!
TTC #2 - back to the RE, treatment started 12/2014.
Re: karyotyping back and moving on
I know how hard it can be to not feel defeated but try and keep pushing forward, just taking it one small step at a time. I'm not sure that I agree with you regarding there being something wrong or jinxed about the eggs retrieved that cycle but I can see where you would think that. Maybe a second opinion is in order, or maybe you just need a little more time and space from all of this to see things in a new light.
Huge hugs to you and I'm glad you at least got good news on your karotyping.
Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12
Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck. Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.
This Cluttered Life
IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
beta #2 11/28 = 2055
Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
DH: 31, normal!
April/May 2011: Menopur + Ovidrel +TI = BFN
Oct 2011: Menopur + Hcg +IUI = BFP!
Beta #1 (13dpiui)= 129.7, Beta #2 (15 dpiui)= 305
PAIF/SAIF always welcome!
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Me-36, Unexplained Infertility, DH-35, all clear
Clomid 50mg 12/2011 = BFN
Clomid 100mg 1/2012 = BFN, with Cyst
IVF #1 Lupron/Menopur/Gonal-f/HCG Trigger
ER 4/19/12 = 11 retrieved, 6 fertilized,
ET 4/22/12 = 2 transfered (day 3), remaining 3 weren't good enough to freeze
Beta 5/3 = BFP, 87 Beta #2 5/7 560.9 Beta #3 5/9 1376.5 First u/s One Baby, 125bpm!
Second u/s, 176bmp! Kicked over to the OB by the RE at 8w. Team Green!!