Monday Bitchfest

MinnesotaMomma91

chattychiqa said:

LAMuehlen said:

Ive still got the flu and now i have dhirea. And bd has been texting me obssedivly asking when om bringing ds to oregon to visit. Im so flipping sick of hearing about how he 'misses our son' and im being a bitch for woth holding ds from him and his parents that i unloaded on him that he cant miss my son cause hes never met my son and if he wants to see him so bad he can come visit or buy the train tickets since i have no extra money to travel to oregon right now.

Yeah, its been a glorious fun filled week. The part about bd might hace been an ffc but meh.

Fuck him.

I feel that way since just last week he told me ds was too fat and i need to cut back feedings.

Coconuthead

My aunt is coming to visit. She is passing through from CA to NM and stopping for a visit. Originally she told me she was coming Monday evening and staying Monday night. Then she told me my BIL, with whom I don't get along, was also coming and she invited him to stay the night at my place. I called my sister and offered to put them up in a hotel and my sister assured me that my BIL would not be stopping but passing right through.

Last night my aunt called and said they would be here in the morning and we could go to lunch. All morning I was waiting. Finally I texted her and she told me oh we are coming soon (10:30) and would I have lunch prepared? WTF? Now I have to prepare something? So I sent my partner to the store and waiting his return but it has been an hour and I haven't heard a peep from her since. Oh and guess what? My BIL is coming too!

Sometimes I hate my family!

MommyBolty

LAMuehlen said:

Yep...and now I have more.. MIL just texted wanting my Email address so she can email me the photos she took of the outfit I hadn't seen yet to see what I approve of for facebook.

I literally could not make this crap up!

Your mil sounds like a peach. Who does the crap she does for real. Id say let her email them not approve one of them. Its your lo, you should be able to post the first person to post pics of your child.

And... I should also be the first person to actually see my own child in a cute outfit that is reserved for a special day. Especially if part of it is handmade by someone from my side of the family.

MinnesotaMomma91

cristinbolt said:

LAMuehlen said:

cristinbolt said:

Yep...and now I have more.. MIL just texted wanting my Email address so she can email me the photos she took of the outfit I hadn't seen yet to see what I approve of for facebook.

I literally could not make this crap up!

Your mil sounds like a peach. Who does the crap she does for real. Id say let her email them not approve one of them. Its your lo, you should be able to post the first person to post pics of your child.

And... I should also be the first person to actually see my own child in a cute outfit that is reserved for a special day. Especially if part of it is handmade by someone from my side of the family.


Your right you should. Might i recommend hiding any special outfits if you have to let mil baby sit. Or is she so bsc she would hunt down the outfit if you hid it

LEMSA

janneann1127 said:

Ugh the only thing I look forward to on Mondays is for DS to go to preschool so I can have a mini-break for a little bit, and possibly LO can sleep because it's finally QUIET. DS wakes up this morning complaining of random neck pain? It appears to be just a stiff neck or something, but now he refuses to move much so school is out of the question. And I had a doctor's appt which I had to cancel because I'm staying home with him. BOOOOO.

DS's neck sounds like tortacollis. Look it up, and if it is all you can do is Motrin, heat, gentle massage. It will resolve itself. And school is still ok as long as he can tolerate it.

MommyBolty

LAMuehlen said:

LAMuehlen said:

Yep...and now I have more.. MIL just texted wanting my Email address so she can email me the photos she took of the outfit I hadn't seen yet to see what I approve of for facebook.

I literally could not make this crap up!

Your mil sounds like a peach. Who does the crap she does for real. Id say let her email them not approve one of them. Its your lo, you should be able to post the first person to post pics of your child.

And... I should also be the first person to actually see my own child in a cute outfit that is reserved for a special day. Especially if part of it is handmade by someone from my side of the family.

Your right you should. Might i recommend hiding any special outfits if you have to let mil baby sit. Or is she so bsc she would hunt down the outfit if you hid it

She's bat shit crazy enough to go into my closet that is shared with LO to get the outfit. I would feel uncomfortable going into anyone's closet when they weren't there. ...But you are right...hiding the cute stuff is definitely a must.

WildRumpus

coraggiosa said:

Jill9288 said:

LO has his 2 month appt and shots today, so that's going to suck, and in the spirit of saving money, I cancelled my hair appt tomorrow. I was really looking forward to some alone me time :-S

@Jill9288 I think we are living parallel lives. DD has her shots today too.

Right?? If we end up with the same pedi I would laugh!

MinnesotaMomma91

cristinbolt said:

LAMuehlen said:

cristinbolt said:

LAMuehlen said:

cristinbolt said:

Yep...and now I have more.. MIL just texted wanting my Email address so she can email me the photos she took of the outfit I hadn't seen yet to see what I approve of for facebook.

I literally could not make this crap up!

Your mil sounds like a peach. Who does the crap she does for real. Id say let her email them not approve one of them. Its your lo, you should be able to post the first person to post pics of your child.

And... I should also be the first person to actually see my own child in a cute outfit that is reserved for a special day. Especially if part of it is handmade by someone from my side of the family.

Your right you should. Might i recommend hiding any special outfits if you have to let mil baby sit. Or is she so bsc she would hunt down the outfit if you hid it

She's bat shit crazy enough to go into my closet that is shared with LO to get the outfit. I would feel uncomfortable going into anyone's closet when they weren't there. ...But you are right...hiding the cute stuff is definitely a must.


Ibthink your mil may take the cake

MitsB707

@cristinbolt Can you hide it under a stack of condoms, porn, and vibrators? Maybe if you made it super uncomfortable to get further into the drawer, she'll give up?

LJUTCMommy

Not a bitch about MIL, but just my Mom. She was visiting this past week and I had to play hostess and entertain all week. I even had to make her bed and do her laundry!

Not to mention, we paid for all her expenses, souvenirs, dining out... She and her H make plenty of money yet they're always "broke". She borrowed money from my 19yo sister to pay the mortgage last month! The live in a LCOL area and have great jobs. I'm not working and have a newborn in CA, sure we'll pay for every damn thing for you while you don't lift a finger!

I like MIL way better.

janneann1127

LEMSA said:

Ugh the only thing I look forward to on Mondays is for DS to go to preschool so I can have a mini-break for a little bit, and possibly LO can sleep because it's finally QUIET. DS wakes up this morning complaining of random neck pain? It appears to be just a stiff neck or something, but now he refuses to move much so school is out of the question. And I had a doctor's appt which I had to cancel because I'm staying home with him. BOOOOO.

DS's neck sounds like tortacollis. Look it up, and if it is all you can do is Motrin, heat, gentle massage. It will resolve itself. And school is still ok as long as he can tolerate it.

@LEMSA Yeah I saw this online and wondered. It does sound like that's it. Awesome.

BlondieBia21

I hate you first pp period.

FeetFirst

Count me in the 2 month shots catagory today ( seems like there are a lot of us!) DD did well, and doesn't seem to have any reaction except being a bit more fussy.

My biggest bitch is with my H. Why can he not figure out how to soothe this baby? He did just fine with DS who was FF. With DD, every time she is fussy it means she " needs the boob" wtf!? When DS was fussy you didn't just shove a bottle in his mouth if he just ate, you tried other things! So get your shit together! Try other ideas you idiot! Ahhhh!

kanned0121

chattychiqa said:

k4maynes said:

I have another one.. My H graduated from the police academy on Friday and we both invited our parents to come. For the punning ceremony my H just wanted me and LO to go down. When the ceremony started MIL asks if they are going for the pinning and I said no, that he only wanted me and baby.. And she was PISSED.. And started almost crying and whispering to FIL. So I decide to just invite them down with the BS excuse that I need help with baby while I put on his badge. (Please note they are taking professional pics and FIL is in a crappy t-shirt and jeans).

We planned on going to lunch with our parents after, and since I picked up my parents I mentioned it.. So as we left the graduation my mom was asking where we were going and I turned to MIL and said we wanted to all go to lunch and she got that same pissed off look and said no, and walked off. My parents could even tell she was beyond pissed, again.

So long story short his graduation sucked because his mom threw multiple temper tantrums.

WTH that's a formal event... Tshirts & jeans are a huge no no.

FIL pinned DH when he graduated, but that's only because he was single and LE was truly FIL's dream before DH's. If he were married or engaged, it would only be appropriate for that person to badge him. Your MIL is fucking looney tunes @k4maynes.

Congrats to your DH. Feel free to PM me if you ever want to talk. My dad is a cop and so is DH. I'm a dispatcher & a member of the peer support group for my dept. I totally get the stressors.

Thank you so much!!! Yeah, it was a little nuts..

CaliforniaDream87

Anyone have great IL's? Sheesh A13 has some of the worst IL's I've ever heard of. So grateful for my amazing IL's who are non intrusive and super supportive.

Anyway, while I've been waiting on some real "fall weather" here in SoCal I'm pretty irritated today. I was supposed to go walking/jogging with some of the stroller moms here. We had a sweet 10 mile trail and we've been preparing for this since last week. This morning-RAIN. We have to reschedule for next week. I needed that today.

BlondieBia21

CaliforniaDream87 said:

Anyone have great IL's? Sheesh A13 has some of the worst IL's I've ever heard of. So grateful for my amazing IL's who are non intrusive and super supportive. Anyway, while I've been waiting on some real "fall weather" here in SoCal I'm pretty irritated today. I was supposed to go walking/jogging with some of the stroller moms here. We had a sweet 10 mile trail and we've been preparing for this since last week. This morning-RAIN. We have to reschedule for next week. I needed that today.

CaliforniaDream87

BlondieBia21 said:

CaliforniaDream87 said:

Anyone have great IL's? Sheesh A13 has some of the worst IL's I've ever heard of. So grateful for my amazing IL's who are non intrusive and super supportive.

Anyway, while I've been waiting on some real "fall weather" here in SoCal I'm pretty irritated today. I was supposed to go walking/jogging with some of the stroller moms here. We had a sweet 10 mile trail and we've been preparing for this since last week. This morning-RAIN. We have to reschedule for next week. I needed that today.

I refuse to believe that! There's got to be someone....

brown214

My bitch is towards myself...I put my rings back on today...and had lotioned my hands so they went on fine...well an hour later my finger was huge. I tried all the tricks but had to go to the ER to them cut off . I suck and should not have put them on.

MinnesotaMomma91

My ex inlaws were satan and mrs satan. No joke! My bfs parents are great, i adore them ive known them for a long time. But i think my ex in laws are right up there for evil and just out of their mind bat shit crazy

MitsB707

@blondiebia21

LJUTCMommy

CaliforniaDream87 said:

Anyone have great IL's? Sheesh A13 has some of the worst IL's I've ever heard of. So grateful for my amazing IL's who are non intrusive and super supportive.

I like MIL better than my own Mom. She is actually a dream compared to the MILs on this board!

RK125

@chattychiqa My dh is a dispatcher too! He's working 3rd shift tonight and then has dd until I get home tomorrow at 4. It's the first time he'll have her for an extended length of time.

mommabmb

My MIL is actually off the hook this week. She's been well behaved and very helpful. Although, it's kind of annoying to hear her say she's taking him to church with her alone... That shit just ain't happening.

My bitch- every year my H hosts a debate tournament at his school. I don't help all year long because I have no interest in it AT ALL. Once a year, I bake this amazing 3 course dinner for the judges lounge. Every year I spend 36+ hours in the kitchen prepping and 12+ hours cooking and baking the day of. In fact, I usually donate most of the food so it doesn't have to come out of the team budget. And this year, when the second coach came to drop off the stuff I asked for supplies, he is mad the total came to $356. UM, WHAT!?! I am feeding 90 people roasted chicken, homemade Mac n cheese, green bean casserole, salad bar, rolls, mashed pots... And that's just one of the THREE MEALS! We have donated over $400 worth of food and supplies already! I'm sorry we couldn't swing the $700 donation we usually do, but I still consider it pretty damn generous.

Gah I could explode. Wait and see what I make next year, dick. Hope you like mushy spaghetti.

bluegirl0429

CaliforniaDream87 said:

CaliforniaDream87 said:

Anyone have great IL's? Sheesh A13 has some of the worst IL's I've ever heard of. So grateful for my amazing IL's who are non intrusive and super supportive. Anyway, while I've been waiting on some real "fall weather" here in SoCal I'm pretty irritated today. I was supposed to go walking/jogging with some of the stroller moms here. We had a sweet 10 mile trail and we've been preparing for this since last week. This morning-RAIN. We have to reschedule for next week. I needed that today.

I refuse to believe that! There's got to be someone....

My FIL and Step MIL are wonderful, caring people. It is my MIL that is a pain in my butt.

kkay1982

@californiadream87 my ILs live on the other side if the world with no computers and only occasional cell phone access so I have had no problems. The one time I met them and the few times we've talked they seem great, but who knows if I would be singing the same tune if we lived there.

FutureMRSTillman

It's not Monday anymore but I still want to bitch.. Since we had to move, I had to take apart my LO's nursery after having spent months putting it all together. AND SHE DIDN'T EVEN SPEND ONE NIGHT IN IT. Makes me angry and sad all at once.

TurtleMomma

It's Monday for 55 more minutes.

WTF DH? You played with the niece and nephew today SO HARD that you aggravated your neck/shoulder injury. You complained several times about the pain, but you kept going. Now that we're home, you're in "to much pain" to hold or change LO.

Uhm... it's awesome you want to play with the kids, but our family first.

MrsLaurenAsh

mommabmb said:

My MIL is actually off the hook this week. She's been well behaved and very helpful. Although, it's kind of annoying to hear her say she's taking him to church with her alone... That shit just ain't happening.

My bitch- every year my H hosts a debate tournament at his school. I don't help all year long because I have no interest in it AT ALL. Once a year, I bake this amazing 3 course dinner for the judges lounge. Every year I spend 36+ hours in the kitchen prepping and 12+ hours cooking and baking the day of. In fact, I usually donate most of the food so it doesn't have to come out of the team budget. And this year, when the second coach came to drop off the stuff I asked for supplies, he is mad the total came to $356. UM, WHAT!?! I am feeding 90 people roasted chicken, homemade Mac n cheese, green bean casserole, salad bar, rolls, mashed pots... And that's just one of the THREE MEALS! We have donated over $400 worth of food and supplies already! I'm sorry we couldn't swing the $700 donation we usually do, but I still consider it pretty damn generous.

Gah I could explode. Wait and see what I make next year, dick. Hope you like mushy spaghetti.

mommabmb said:

My MIL is actually off the hook this week. She's been well behaved and very helpful. Although, it's kind of annoying to hear her say she's taking him to church with her alone... That shit just ain't happening.

My inlaws got to keep LO overnight while we celebrated our anniversary this weekend. When they dropped him off the next day they told us they took him to church (without asking). And to make matters worse, he was dressed in an outfit and bib I had never seen that she obviously bought for him herself for the occasion and with a different paci that is completely different than what he takes.

My child who just completed a scary stay at the children's hospital and hasn't had any shots. And you passed him around at church. Without asking. (The without asking part is what really pissed me off.)

We're not speaking right now.

MrsLaurenAsh

Not sure why that quoted twice!