You told SD's to call me what!!!

Pamelacake

a fucking bitch and a stripper whore! as well as the worst mom ever.

I am not mad bc BM refers to me as these things... She says it in almost every voicemail. But WHY on earth would you tell a 7yo to say that and the 5yo to say the second part. Oh my.. give me strength.

SD's did not call me these things.. I just heard them when I was documenting. BM though she had put her hand over the voice recorder... wrong end dumbass!!!

I am baffled. This was the visit from 3 weeks ago. She couldn't come yesterday b/c "she was sick from having chemo" She doesn't even have cancer. I am so done with this. I get to oversee the phone call this evening IF she decides to call and I am going to need all of my strength not to say anything to her.

ambrvan

Oh, so now we have two strippers on this board.

Pamelacake

Lol.. I guess so. I don't think I would make very much though.. My baby bump is extremely out there. haha.

twister22

Pamelacake said:

Lol.. I guess so. I don't think I would make very much though.. My baby bump is extremely out there. haha.

I have somehow not noticed your signature. Congrats! Do you know what your having yet?

And I'm sorry BM is such a BSC woman who does nothing but hurt the girls. How long until the courts will just let SP adoption happen?

Littlejen22

Please listen in on every conversation and when she says something like that just step in and say you are ending the call or visit and ask the girls to say goodbye. Maybe if you are consistent with ending the calls she will go away. Well probably not but here is hoping.

ambrvan

There was a pregnant stripper who danced at a club that used to be near here (all have closed down), and she danced until the data before she delivered on her actual due date. Lol

I guess the physical benefits of pole dancing helped her endure pregnancy.

Nineoceans

Nice Bm but no points for originality we have heard that insult before!

Wahoo

I would bring more than singles for you! 

Also, it is not OK for BM to call you those things!  If she calls you things like that, you need to end the conversation, kick her out of the house, or delete the message without listening to the rest.  You should stand up for yourself, especially because you want to model standing up for yourself for SD7. 

Pamelacake

haha @wendilea.. that's funny.. I do save all of my ones and fives for baby décor. LMBO

I have heard of men with baby belly fetishes. lol. DH has it bad!

@twister22 Thanks! I found out less than 2 weeks ago I'm having a girl ♥ 

and no word yet on setting any court dates for that. I think they are waiting until after the contempt date this week.

@Littlejen22 we do.. DH isn't very good at keeping an eye on things when I step away, so I only do that when extremely necessary. He was on the porch when this was said but wasn't close enough to hear and he apparently wasn't watching. DH did have to end the phone call twice last night (thank goodness he was here, BM didn't call until after 8:30) BM and FI got into an argument while on the phone with 7yo! FI yelled into the phone that DH could kiss his ass and called him a punk b!tch. This is a 40 something yo man I am speaking of.

I am working on an emergency c/o today.. if it's possible.. to change the visits from us to a pro.

@ambvran that's funny.. I have taken a pole class but not for the provocative, it was for my muscles when they were trying to figure out what was wrong with me.. it turned out to be firomyalgia but the class was a lot of fun and definitely a great workout!

@Nineoceans I hear it numerous times a week in VM's. I just document and laugh. I just didn't think she would go as low as to try to get SD's to call me that. But then again.. I can't be surprised by anything she does anymore.

Pamelacake

awe Thanks @Wahoo

I didn't hear this.. she says things like this when DH is watching, not me. I have confronted BM about saying these things in VM's. I very politely told her that if she thought she was hurting my feelings, I'm sorry but she's wrong. If BM misses her visit or gets mad at DH for something that she didn't follow through with.. I usually get numerous VM's a day saying these things. I just record and document. BM thinks that since it isn't directed toward DH, She isn't in the wrong.

I don't think she understands the concept that this "stripper whore" has legal rights over her kids and she doesn't.

I don't know what she was trying to get our of telling SD's to say these things to me.. If they were to have said that.. I would have known where it came from.

 

CFjo2010

Whoa whoa whoa.  Now I have competition in the stripper SM department.  Not cool.  Not cool at all!!   [-(

And @wendilea you better make sure those singles are folded properly.  I'm getting old and can't squat as low to pick them up with my buttcheeks...